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⚕️Depression

🧑Anxiety

😰Stress

💗Relationships

DepressionThought

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Anonymous

People who are friends with/dating a person with depression -

1. Remind them how much they mean to you
2. Challenge their bad thoughts
3. Spend quality time with them
4. Encourage them to do their work if they can
5. Ask them how you can be of help morally
6. Text or call them to make sure they are in a safe space

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Anonymous

It’s not worth it…I dated someone with depression, i thought I’ll cure her with my love and stuff…she cheated on me and made me depressed …not worth it

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Anonymous

Damn. She was depressed and had the energy to cheat? Man! I am so sorry

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Anonymous

That sucks man what the audacity

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Anonymous

Ikr…thanks to movies you think you can “cure” someone with love blah blah…it’s all BS

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Anonymous

You can only love, cure? There are docs for that

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Anonymous

Go tell that to 19 yo me

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Anonymous

Ahw dear 🥺

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Anonymous

Ikr …what made you post this thought though

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Anonymous

Just random… I thought about me and my pex partner… both of us were struggling and things didnt end so well… i was reflecting on it so i posted this

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Anonymous

How long did the relationship last

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Anonymous

Less than a year. We were not planning on dating, we were friends before that… and it was a bad idea.

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Anonymous

Ah …how are you doing now

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Anonymous

Firstly, I feel bad for putting him in this situation. I did love him, so I confessed about my feelings to him. But you see, he knew I was not doing well, mentally. And he wouldnt tell me he was troubled until the very end. So i think he said yes just as a charity. Later on my problems would bother him because he wasnt in a good place either… so he left me. He left me for no reason. He just said listening to my problems reminded him of his issues. And idk what to say to that. He abandoned me but I feel like I walked right into it… so yeah… I am very hurt. I dont think i deserve it because at all times I asked him to bail out and he refrained only to leave me all of a sudden. And and, I had to bring that out of him, he wouldnt even say he wanted out, he was just abandoning me with excuses.

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Anonymous

I understand… would you like to laugh rn?

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Anonymous

I am finee. I have been through way worse. Hehe

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Anonymous

I’m glad…tbh you don’t deserve charity relationship…no one does…stay strong…sab sahi ho jaega ❤️

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Anonymous

Yeah i hope. No more relationships for me

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Anonymous

Sidha marriage 🥳🥳

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Anonymous

If at all I am ready, yes. Warna ghar se niklo bas lol

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Anonymous

Lol…what work you do

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Anonymous

Currently unemployed because I am doing my masters

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Anonymous

Woaaah…which subject?

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Anonymous

Business administration haha

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Anonymous

Sidha MBAAAA bolna tha 😂😂😂😂 you’re happy where you are?

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Anonymous

Arey mujje kahan pata tha you’d ask. Anyway, I am not at all happy where I am. Idk what I am doing. I am a troubled individual

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Anonymous

Nah you’re not…you sound cool…

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Anonymous

Why you calling yourself troubled individual though

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Anonymous

Hahahaha I used to be. I dont have a bad personality, thats all I would say… what about you? How’s life?

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Anonymous

Make sure to take care of your own health as well. It’s not good if you both are unhealthy. Remember everybody has their problems u can’t fix them all! Unless u a doctor aghahah

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Anonymous

Yes I am aware. I just mentioned in case the healthy ones are with depressed ones… they too need guidance

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Anonymous

Thanks for sharing this…

People going through depression needs some uplifting and encouragement randomly to be in a better state of mind

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Anonymous

Yeah and I am sure the people who are around them wanna help too

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Anonymous

How’s life for me?? It was going average tbh…but then I met this amazing MBA ladyyy on “now and me” soooo…kinda awesome ngl

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Anonymous

Buddhu 😅

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Anonymous

I thought you’d say cuteee…but ok 👉👈

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Anonymous

Lmao have a nice day

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