People who are friends with/dating a person with depression -
1. Remind them how much they mean to you
2. Challenge their bad thoughts
3. Spend quality time with them
4. Encourage them to do their work if they can
5. Ask them how you can be of help morally
6. Text or call them to make sure they are in a safe space
It’s not worth it…I dated someone with depression, i thought I’ll cure her with my love and stuff…she cheated on me and made me depressed …not worth it
Damn. She was depressed and had the energy to cheat? Man! I am so sorry
That sucks man what the audacity
Ikr…thanks to movies you think you can “cure” someone with love blah blah…it’s all BS
You can only love, cure? There are docs for that
Go tell that to 19 yo me
Ahw dear 🥺
Ikr …what made you post this thought though
Just random… I thought about me and my pex partner… both of us were struggling and things didnt end so well… i was reflecting on it so i posted this
How long did the relationship last
Less than a year. We were not planning on dating, we were friends before that… and it was a bad idea.
Ah …how are you doing now
Firstly, I feel bad for putting him in this situation. I did love him, so I confessed about my feelings to him. But you see, he knew I was not doing well, mentally. And he wouldnt tell me he was troubled until the very end. So i think he said yes just as a charity. Later on my problems would bother him because he wasnt in a good place either… so he left me. He left me for no reason. He just said listening to my problems reminded him of his issues. And idk what to say to that. He abandoned me but I feel like I walked right into it… so yeah… I am very hurt. I dont think i deserve it because at all times I asked him to bail out and he refrained only to leave me all of a sudden. And and, I had to bring that out of him, he wouldnt even say he wanted out, he was just abandoning me with excuses.
I understand… would you like to laugh rn?
I am finee. I have been through way worse. Hehe
I’m glad…tbh you don’t deserve charity relationship…no one does…stay strong…sab sahi ho jaega ❤️
Yeah i hope. No more relationships for me
Sidha marriage 🥳🥳
If at all I am ready, yes. Warna ghar se niklo bas lol
Lol…what work you do
Currently unemployed because I am doing my masters
Woaaah…which subject?
Business administration haha
Sidha MBAAAA bolna tha 😂😂😂😂 you’re happy where you are?
Arey mujje kahan pata tha you’d ask. Anyway, I am not at all happy where I am. Idk what I am doing. I am a troubled individual
Nah you’re not…you sound cool…
Why you calling yourself troubled individual though
Hahahaha I used to be. I dont have a bad personality, thats all I would say… what about you? How’s life?
Make sure to take care of your own health as well. It’s not good if you both are unhealthy. Remember everybody has their problems u can’t fix them all! Unless u a doctor aghahah
Yes I am aware. I just mentioned in case the healthy ones are with depressed ones… they too need guidance
Thanks for sharing this…
People going through depression needs some uplifting and encouragement randomly to be in a better state of mind
Yeah and I am sure the people who are around them wanna help too
How’s life for me?? It was going average tbh…but then I met this amazing MBA ladyyy on “now and me” soooo…kinda awesome ngl
Buddhu 😅
I thought you’d say cuteee…but ok 👉👈
Lmao have a nice day
