People say life is not easy after divorce but I am in such a state where divorce will only give me the freedom from my depression and anxiety of 10 years. Just wanted to know if you anyone here has been through divorce and is it really that big deal like elders say girls life gets spoiled and becomes meaningless after divorce. 

Not always. I've seen up close what goes through the head of a person going through a divorce. It doesn't get meaningless as long as you know the person you are currently with is absolutely not be with. Rest all will fall into place as long as you take care of yourself

Depression

Anyone law background?

Unemployment

Dont know who will be my husband , But already feels like to start preparing things for marriage.

Marriage

I’m a stay at home mom currently until I’m able to get my license. Long story short my father never wanted to teach and now my husband has to teach me. I’ll be 20 in January. Anyways my husband does not understand how hard it is to not be able to go out and to have to stay in all day taking care of our son. I am a full time online student and today I had 5 assignments due today and I was stressed out to with my son because he was fussy and I had an assignment that was acting up. I just finished my last assignment. Before I finished it my son needed to go to bed and my husband asking if we were going to bed and I said yes but I’m not ready because I have a lot to do still.  So he waited until the last minute to say he was going to bed and I asked if he was going to take our son and he said no because he can’t put him to sleep. Well I said it’s because you never tried. Tbh I don’t think he’s really been there for our son.  It hurts to say it to because he pays for everything since I don’t work but I feel like I do everything. I clean the house. I cook. I change and bathe our son. And I make sure we are saving money. And I am a student and I make the appointments and I do the laundry. And I please everyone because if I don’t they ask what wrong with me. I really want to know who’s in the wrong my husband questioning me why it take the whole day to do hw or me the one doing everything in the house so he can come home and relax. 

Someone met me at an important event of my life and jokingly said, this is your husband to be and laughed. My heart has been broken since. I am so afraid to invite any friends to our wedding because of the judgements, because people don't stop even on your big day 🥲

Insecurity

Any law student here?

Career

I have my wedding tomorrow. 
I don't feel like going.  

Adulting

Life there lies with turns all over, 
Teaching new lessons ever and ever. 
Nowhere it stops till the end is here, 
Always it hardens lesser or fewer! 

Life

How to deal with toxic dominating in laws ? They have literally ruined my life . I m lost . I feel dead since I got married . My husband is the best but he is also being controlled by his father and mother financially because his father is a wealthy man . His father gives him everything yet nothing . I have had a different life before I got married . I had the most comfortable and luxurious life before I got married . But after I got married I lost my job due to the pandemic .I have spent most of my savings on my wedding . Due to this pandemic even my husband who is into business has nothing to offer as he himself is struggling .  I cannot believe how my life has turned upside down in one year and now I have to even think of getting basic stuff for the house . My husband has always been very supportive of me and he loves and respect me . But he is still under his dad financially and can’t even stand for himself or for me . His parents insults me on my face and demands respects for themselves. His parents wants us to sit and stand on their command . His mom always dominates me and tell me how I don’t know shit ! They have no clue how my life used to me before and how independent I have been my whole life . Only thing I wanted from them was love and respect . At times when his dad wants to be nice with me his mom gets jealous and we can see that clearly . I have moved out of my comfort zone just to make them happy by making special food desserts etc . Because they always tell me how they wish their daughter in law to make tea for them and serve them . I grew up in a different culture where my parents have never treated me like I need to cook or clean n do household work . I have always been working woman . It’s not wrong to do household chores but it wrong when my mom in law said that I can do the dishes but not her son ever ! Because he has always been a prince in his family. Hello !! Even I have been a princess in my family but my parents have always helped each other and same me and my husband believe . They have a old mentality where they think that a man has to dominate his wife . Wtf ! I cannot believe these people !!!! I am not someone who usually take shit ! But just because I love my husband I don’t want to create dramas but todayy in laws and us had a big argument where they were the only one talking and suppressing our voices . We might not be always right and same goes to them ! But no ! According to them they are all elders and they know everything! I have so many things to write but cant! Please guys somebody help me because I am going crazy and I am so close to lose it !

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