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@this_sucks_

People on this app have proven it that being beautiful is favoured over being ugly. Whenever I call myself ugly they assume I’m being insecure. But if I had instead called myself beautiful, no one would have criticised me for lying or boasting. The stigma surrounding being ugly is just…

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mani @mani12

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Think as if you are beautiful people don’t have a right to judge you or describe you

@this_sucks_
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If I’m beautiful. What if I’m ugly? That’s simply the truth. People attack me for being ugly.

mani @mani12

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You are living with the wrong people

@this_sucks_
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The world is a unfair place in general. I cant blame anyone.

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Wooju @wooju

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What is the meaning for being ugly as per you?

@this_sucks_
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I dont care about philosophy. You can think of a million definition which would fit a term as arbitrary as ugly or beautiful. They dont matter. Because my mirror doesnt know any of them.

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Anonymous
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You are differentiating being beautiful and ugly. If people are calling you beautiful, don’t take it as a delusion or sympathy. Every human is beautiful every living being is beautiful. We all are here to not to judge anyone and make them feel home.

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My experiences say otherwise.

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Anonymous
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I know and can understand you as no one cus I was in your situation too. People had made your mind in this way that you are no more believing in yourself. You are not accepting yourself. Why do even care about what they are saying? It’s your life, choose what you want to, choose how you want it to… they are no one to make you loose the hope in yourself… please understand

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Why would I be content even though I’m not ugly, if I’m not accepting myself? I just have a few desires and expectations which remain unfulfilled, unfortunately. And please dont try to put yourself in my shoes. You dont know the things I’ve been through. I’m not looking for sympathy or concern. And to be honest, I dont care about what people say. I have trouble understanding them anyway.

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And I haven’t lost any hope in my life. The amount of assumptions you have made tell me that you were never in my situation.

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Anonymous
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Then read your previous posts. Maybe I read it wrong. But the more I read it the more I feel like you’re just just complaining about their opinions their thoughts.

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Anonymous
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You can’t just assume it

@this_sucks_
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I’m sorry, but I didnt. I clearly added a β€˜perhaps’ in front of the sentence. But I’m really sorry if you did feel like I had assumed something. I had no intent to.

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I’m not complaining. And I’ll make another post on this very topic. About why I dont complain.

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Anonymous
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We are all really sorry that we made you uncomfortable. We just wanted to assure you because we thought maybe people around you making u feel like this. And thankyou for being honest here. I hope you can reach out people and try to express what you exactly want to tell.

@this_sucks_
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It’s ok, I never blamed others formy experiences in the past.

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Anonymous
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Still do this atleast one time… live a day full of yourself like no thought of being ugly just you living a peaceful day.

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