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Anonymous

people constantly ask if me and him are dating but i still think he sees me as just a friend. today in class we were sitting against the wall, he told me to put my head on his shoulder so i did and we were just holding hands until the bell rang. but the thing is he’s really friendly. he holds all his friends hands. how do i find out if he likes me or if he’s just being friendly?

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Anonymous

Whenever someone ask that you two are dating or not then say ‘yes, we r dating’
And ask him that in private that if he have any problem if you say this
If he doesn’t have any problem
Then he somewhere likes you…

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Anonymous

The best thing is to be direct. Maybe he’s dropping hints that he likes you but you cannot understand. Or maybe it’s just him being friendly. Either way, it’s better to just clear it up.
Also holding hands throughout the lecture is so cute 😭

@marslol

i think he’s dropping hints but then i see him holding his friends hand during free period and i lose all confidence. i sometimes feel like he gives me extra attention then other people but its still so confusing. hes really perfect too

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Anonymous

The best way to figure it out is to talk to him. Not directly if you’re not comfortable, but ask him about if he wants to date someone and stuff. Beat around the bush a Lil bit and if you think he might be interested, go for it

@marslol

hi! i took your advice today and found out he’s talking to someone already :( trying my best to move on from him but it is hard. got any advice for moving on?

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Anonymous

Aww I’m so sorry. Gotta be honest, I’m not the best person to ask for advice on moving on. If ik nothing’s gonna happen I kind of distance myself from the person and hope the feelings fade away. But I wouldn’t ask you to do that considering you’re really good friends with him.

@marslol

i think i might have to distance myself from him, i was only good friends with him because of my big crush on him and that made us be closer. now that he’s interested in someone i think it will only hurt me to be his friend until i move on. thank you for all your advice tho i really appreciate it <3

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Anonymous

Aww you seem so nice😭. I really hope you weren’t going through this.
But your decision sounds great. Go for it.

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