Avni @avni
One thing that i realised about codependency was that while i felt comfortable in the equation, it gave other people a power to control me. In times of conflict, they could revoke their benefits and it would be left feeling vulnerable and powerless. At the end, i would go back to the previous ways of being. The more and more you start taking responsibility for your self,the less inept you feel.You feel joy when you do small things by youself, for yourself.
But there are also times when you need to be dependent. You need help. We are social animals and some company and a little help along the way is what keeps us going.
Avni @avni
Of course, yes! U have to accept that we cant do everything by ourselves. And so we must be grateful for help when it does come our way.:)
