One strange thing I have found today is that many of us here do understand what many others are going through and can realize and try to advice saying that one is enough for one’s ownself. But when we look into our heartbreaks, it is still so unfathomable. It is so painful to take our own advice because a lot of us are afraid of letting go. It is so painful.
Slowly and gradually you end up building that threshold for pain. After each heartbreak, it starts to hurt less and less and less. Because somewhere you end up expecting that it will lead to heartbreak or the person leaving you.