One of my old friend broke our friendship saying I don’t care about him at all and i distracted him then after 1.5 yrs he came back on my bday and said that he cannot find someone as genuine as me. I accepted his friendship back but now I want to hurt him like he did. I sometimes try to act distant but stupid me is always available at everyone’s beck and call. Why is it so hard for me to just hate someone even when they deserve it.
First of all him coming back to you just because he couldn’t “find someone” like you is just pure disrespect to you. Look how is he using you and when he couldn’t find someone who can act like you he now wants to let you welcome him again in your life is pure manipulation, trust me he doesn’t deserve you at all, and the best revenge you can get is by not choosing him as your friend and not being dependent on him, don’t try other ways to hurt him, just leave him instead, and by leaving I mean give proper closure and the reason for you to put yourself first, and tell him how he disrespected you so much and please don’t get attach because it won’t end good, speaking from experience.
I get it but he is a childhood friend and you don’t know me I never stop talking to one, I just can’t. I don’t know how to.
Will you keep hurting yourself like that then dear? I can understand because even I went through all this but there are times when you have to take yourself as the priority because you can see yourself getting hurt. Love yourself more than anything.
Thanks for saying that
John @johnwatson
What you can do now is probably not take him too seriously considering what he did.
Today he asked for my help but I didn’t do it saying I don’t know how to .
I don’t know
