One of my not so close male friend used a cuss word on me(bkl), I am a girl...I didn't like it and obviously I don't wanna be in contact with such people who don't have any decency. He said it was a joke...i am thinking to block him and never contact him. Is it correct?

Stop being sarcastic...and if you can't give a normal answer then don't! Mind your own business!

He is not that if a good friend...so no warnings for him

It depends on your bond with him..... And I think usko pehle se he pata hona chahiye ki what to say as he is your friend..... May be you can warn him thd first time and than if he again do this than you can block him.... 

It's completely fine to block him. If he has no sense to talk he might repeat it again 

Why we won’t do thing which might lead to a end but if I won’t it will be the best. Even if the risk is worth 

3am Thoughts

How can I get rid of sleep...I feel so sleepy whenever I start studying😭😭😭😭😭

Confusion

I love singing but dad says I need to practice more to sing on social media

Music

Is this how  therapy works? . I have a sis who's older than me and ever since my high school has treated me badly . Badly in sense she takes out all her frustration on me . We live in a smaller city and had to move to  a diff city for edu, obviously she moved earlier, I stayed in a hostel and she would bring me to her pg once in months when I had holidays. She used to treat me all nice in front of others but alone she used to abuse me verbally & hit me, once she had an argument with her bf , she cried all day and made these thin scratches on her arms and then blamed me for ruining her life she accused me of making her miserable and pushing her to the edge. I had come for a day from my hostel , I was in school ,i didn't have a phone , hardly spoke to her i don't know how I did that. Fast forward to today's years have gone by , the abuse she inflicts increased , she has a different rage she abuses hits does everything that u can never think of looking at her that she is capable of. She always thinks she is the best rest. Like she says I have done so much but what I got in return.So i believe therapy works and it's helpful too . She has been in therapy for years. Although I never saw any changes. I heard her talking to her therapist multiple times  our room is adjacent (unintentionally), I know it's unethical of me. But she lies about everything to the therapist, she victimises herself and says horrible things about me and our parents . How she had a bad childhood ,how father is abusive etc etc. The therapist seems to just listen and give exercises . In a recent event she has had a breakup , she seems to be doing the same. I wonder if she will ever change. The therapist seems like someone who agrees with her problems , gives her that validation of being right. She is one hundred percent sure ,she did everything right. 
I don't know how it actually works, i hope it works.!

Exhausted

Before this app used to be so good.... Like literally people used to vent their feelings out and strangers used to help them now its just about sexual creeps

Now&Me Thinks

I have joined this website today as I am really exhausted of my situation. Since the last 5 years I have been dating a girl and we have become really serious but something or the other is coming in between whenever I try for marriage. She is from a different caste, our kundli matching is worse almost all the experts have told we won't last, my brother got divorced and many more. Due to which my parents are really scared and I cannot blame them. Neither can I blame my girlfriend. I am just cursing myself everyday. I was finally getting better and suddenly this topic started again. I have already wasted 2 years and have been diagnosed multiple times with depression. I am stuck in my career and have to restart again. I don't have any friends other than her. I have become fat and bald. I just cannot find a single reason why my life is worthwhile other than paying back my parents and girlfriend for the amount of sacrifices they have done for me. Everyday it feels worse to wake up in the morning and think about what should I do today

Relationships

Hello friends

Happy

Hey guys im new here and i never thought that i’ll find an app like this and im not sure if it’s gonna help me with my situation but i needed to let this off my chest, anyway the truth is that i’ve been a happy person for years minding my business had a lot of friends a great job, good relationship with my family it was great, sure i had some bad days but who doesn’t lol so one day i meet this girl that we used to study together when we were kids tbh she was my first crush but circumstances made me move to an other city so we didn’t see nor talk to each other’s for 15 years long story short we met last year and we kinda clicked their was a great vibe a real connection, we started what we call this days a situationship because she had to go back to the states but she told me that she wasn’t sure and that she gonna try and make it work here truth be told she didn’t even try anyway we had a good thing going and i started falling hard for her even tho i wasn’t emotionally available at the time, i had hopes that she’s gonna stay because as i thought we had a special thing i thought she loved me, i’ve always pictured a future with her so i accepted things i never thought i’d do but did just because i loved her more than anything else(huge mistake), at the end things got ugly because she became really distant and told me that she was thinking things through so i gave her some space but apparently she was preparing herself for the breakup emotionally and at the end she left me by saying it is what it is and it’s not personal and that she didn’t owed me anything and that i was a great guy and that i deserve better you know the kind of bullshit, the usual stuff in movies bla bla bla so she asked me to be friends until our path cross again haha and she didn’t want to have a distance relationship neither go back with me if i come to the states even after a few months she said that we had to date first and that’s if she’s not in an other relationship by then so no promises, i couldn’t accept being friends cuz i loved her too much i tried tbh but it was so painful seeing her happy living her best life like i never existed and she used to share with me her day by snap even when i comment on her snaps no response pr she replied after hours or a day so so i told her that i couldn’t do it anymore and i stopped talking with her ever since for almost 4 months. During this period i lost everything, my job, my friends and my family because of my depression and anxiety it’s something i’ve never experienced before i’ve never thought that depression is a real thing until i lived it, after the new year eve i asked her bestie if she’s seeing someone because i had to move on so she said yes she’s back with her ex boyfriend that didn’t date for more than a year and that it was serious between them so i thought that will help me move on but it only made things worse cuz i almost killed myself that night (i don’t wanna go to details but it was a stupid move and i was drunk) so i wrote this hate msg telling her how a terrible person she is and told her to throw anything i gave her to remember me with and asked her to leave me alone and never contact me ever again after few days she tried to reach out saying that she was really hurt by what i said and that her bestie lied to me because she wanted to help me move on and that she was also suffering after the breakup doing hypnosis to move on. now im in a difficult situation because idk how to feel anymore idk who to trust idk what to do idk how to stop thinking about her like she never existed so i could get my shit together im on a lot of medication but it’s only making things worse all i want is my life back and i sware this is the last time i give someone the power to ruin my life through love . I know it’s a long text but i had to talk about it and say everything thanks for hearing me out whoever you are ❤️ 
Ps: if you guys have any tips to help me heal i will appreciate it .


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