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Anonymous

One male friend of mine is married and recently he and his wife were blessed with a baby boy.
Few weeks back I saw that guy on a dating app, I know he used to use it before getting married, so I thought he must not have deleted his profile from there so I sent him a screenshot of his profile and told him that you should delete it now. He said he will do it he didn’t remember the profile was still there.
Today I saw his wife’s ig account and on it I saw a pic which she had taken of him and then I remembered that the pic was on his dating profile.
This means he was using the app after marriage. I’m shocked. Arrange marriages are scary huh, no one can be trusted. I never thought he would do something like this.

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Anonymous

Don’t judge the whole subject by just one chapter…
It’s not about arranged marriages, it’s about the preference of individuals. Even in Love marriages , some people do date others after marriage… i have seen such cases too …
So you should widen your thoughts and research before saying anything…

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Anonymous

My point of posting this was to express my shock on my this guy’s behavior (don’t even feel like calling him a friend) as I cannot tell this to anyone else
But you got triggered by just 1 line, don’t know what your problem is. I didn’t even say that people shouldn’t do arrange marriage or people always cheat in arrange marriage, anything of that sort.

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Anonymous

You are now taking it the wrong way … i just told you the fact and talking about the truth.
I’m not triggered at all . I am saying you should have written that marriages are scary as a collective noun instead of arrange marriage. It was a suggestion to let you know about your mistake …
I got the moral that you were shocked and you will have trust issues to get married after this incident .

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Anonymous

Okay

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Anonymous

Yeah . Just take it as a suggestion…
No offense…
Good morning,
Have a nice day … 👍🏻

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Anonymous

Good morning
Nice day to you too

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Anonymous

👍🏻 thanks

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Anonymous

I didn’t want to fight with anyone early morning 😅

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Anonymous

Will do

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anuj @anujvohra

Yes looks bad. That’s okay. You have done your bit.

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Anonymous

Yeah, i m just loosing my trust in people with every passing day.

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anuj @anujvohra

That’s okay. There are more positives than negative. Our mind tend to focus more on the latter sometimes. Just look around, you will find more trust worthy genuine relationships in real world

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Anonymous

It’s a cycle, nowadays no-one knows the true value of love, marriage, and that’s why we are seeing cases of breakup and divorce alot

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Anonymous

😒

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Anonymous

That’s true

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Anonymous

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Arrange marriage is scary

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Anonymous

All marriages are scary
By mistake i wrote arrange

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Anonymous

I couldn’t agree more

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