luckybutunlucky... @luckybutunluckygirl
On 24th May 2020, I broke up with my boyfriend…
It was my first true relationship…
We broke up but there are still some misunderstandings from my side…N I was the one who said that we cannot contact each other after we break up…Even after almost 1 year I am not able to move on… He is in the same clg group… It makes me feel angry whenever I hear his voice… I still make fake scenarios in my mind about us being together… It makes me feel worst…
This is how we ended :-
He once pranked me by saying that he was going to propose to a girl(that girl already had a crush on him) I got scared because we were in a relationship n it was not going well…
He said that he just wrote that to get my attention…
Next time when he pranked he indirectly said that ‘I want to break up with u’ I agreed to it…Because he said that I was in a relationship with u because u were happy with me…I felt like I was a burden on him…I agreed to the breakup…he said that I was just testing u…
I kinda have a habit to write ‘…’ instead of ‘hmmm’ so when he said I was testing u…I replied with “…” He then said that I love u and all that stuff. I was pissed off so I continuously replied with “…” Now I wanted to irritate him…
The next day in the morning he restricted my Instagram account… N it was my daily routine to text him first in the morning…I waited…for hours…no reply…At last I texted him(SMS) “I WANT TO BREAK UP WITH U” I just wanted his attention…He immediately called me and started to scold me…he didn’t even listen to me or ask me that “Why did I write that?” Out of anger I also said let’s break up…First time in my life I had got so much furious…
The next thing that he did is the took screenshot n put that in our clg group…N blamed me that I had broken up with him…
I was like “WHAT THE HELL !!!”
I tried 3 times after that to patch up but he said that "I have promised my little sister(she was 2 years younger than him) that I will never come in a relationship with u "
I blocked him after that…
N the worst part is that after break up I realized that he manipulated me like mad…
He made me choose between him and my friends… N I had chosen him…
I lost everything…Just because of him…I have no friends to talk now…
He has everything right now…like friends support, family support…everything
Can anyone help me overcome him???
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If he did manipulate you, it was a good decision to break up.
If you’ve lost your friends, try contacting them again and ask for a second chance.
I always keep in mind that when there’s no one my friends are always by my side. And when there will be someone I won’t ditch my friends for that person.
If he’s always on your mind, keep yourself busy, do what you love, get a hobby.
Power to you
luckybutunlucky... @luckybutunluckygirl
My friends forgave me… but they r not the same…
I am trying all the stuff (keeping myself busy, do what I love, get a hobby) but nothing works…
Yes I understand friends may change. But it’s okay you can always try getting along with them.
Maybe try watching Anime if you have free time. So many people are into it
luckybutunlucky... @luckybutunluckygirl
I will try that…
jay @jay12
Hey wanna talk?
luckybutunlucky... @luckybutunluckygirl
yes…
jay @jay12
How are you?
luckybutunlucky... @luckybutunluckygirl
I am doing ok…
jay @jay12
Great
I feel like its ur mistake to behave like that… I donno why every single female/girl, they assume something on their own and they dont want to listen to their boyfriend’s opinion…After all what he did was a goddamn prank and he even pleased you to forgive him…I still donno what kind of ego made u to do like that to the poor guy… (well i am telling my opinion.dont take it offensive.But i feel that the mistake is on ur side)
luckybutunlucky... @luckybutunluckygirl
I agree it was a prank but I am a sensitive person… He should have understood…
U should read the story properly…He was the one who didn’t listen to me…
I had forgiven him before he said wanted to say sorry…but he never asked for forgiveness…
Poor guy…SSLY ??? I am the who is suffering …not him…
See, everygirl will tell that they are a sensitive perosn… But lemme ask u this, “is the world sensitive?”…Its damn rude and being sensitive doesnt help… And how can u dare asking breakup with him just to get attention? Is that what u call “LOVE” ?? Yeah u r the one suffering but its the consequence of what “you” did.
luckybutunlucky... @luckybutunluckygirl
He can propose to another girl ???
Do u mean that I cannot be sensitive with the ones I am close with ???
well, I have nothing to say but if u want to stay happy, just stone your heart… Thats how I am living
Damn! Glad that you poured all that out. I can understand its very stressful to keep imaging and dreaming of being together with that person. But if you feel he used you to his advantage then you shouldn’t regret of breaking up with him. As for your friends , you should approach them and make them understand what happened and why you acted like that before , they’ll understand that it wasn’t really you.
You’re ready strong. It takes courage to talk. And you did it.
Take care dear and Stay Safe 😊
move on…
time is a biggest healer
Hey💐
Its your right decision to brokeup with him.You arr strong and good girl.Do whatever you want but never think about what you left.Time to move on do things what you like.Make new friends, help others and enjoy every single moment of life.
I am here for you if you wanna to share anything.
Hey, first of all don’t completely blame yourself for your break up. Don’t think that only you spoiled all the things. Relationships doesn’t always depend on only one single person. You tried so hard to get things right, you tried to safe your relationship because YOU CARED about that person. But, only that person wasn’t able to understand your love and care. So, don’t blame yourself for all of it.
I know moving on is not so easy but it is possible only if YOU want to change your life because only YOU can release yourself from your traumatic past.
Just understand this “IN ORDER TO CHANGE, YOU GOT TO CHANGE”
I hope you will get strength and energy to overcome all the negativity from which you are suffering. You are strong and powerful more than you think 😊
So, just think positive and stay happy 😊
