Okay so my brother is living in new Zealand from past 3 years, actually he’s my cousin, I’m single girl child and i take him as my real brother and i know he also do care for me like the same but today on raksha bandhan when i was talking he said something like it wasn’t expected he said okay if you don’t want to talk just end the call i don’t care actually he’s changed, it’s not about today but from last few months he never texts me first even he doesn’t care about what i feel, what I’m going through i mean nothing is same now, he takes everything like a joke. May be I’m the one who is hurting my self i should prepare myself the way he’s now. I have no one who can just feel the same like i do, no one is there who can just once do thing’s according to me , it’s always me who listens to everyone.
How old are you
20 why ?
Because I think you are old enough to understand that with time our understanding and reaction to situations change our immediate priorities change. Your brother might not be available for a casual chitchat always and might appear distant, but this definitely doesn’t means that he loves you any less. When you might be really needing he be assured that he will be there for you
I think you’re right that time i was so hurt and wrote all that but now i think he’s right at his place
Make friends it will help 😇
It’s not easy because i don’t trust anyone and everybody do same thing like just selfishness, don’t care about other
May be he must have found new priority to take care , and now you r less important
I know I’m no more important to him but…!!!
But what you want, you should accept it
Yeah it’s better than hurting my self
Yes no point thinking about the same thing , give less important to him n u will be ok
I can’t do this after all he’s my brother not just a friend
I understand but he treats you like that , treat him the same way, may be he will start caring about you again
The only thing i can do is ‘ignore’, he’s coming in the end of August so I’ll wait then I’ll see if really he’s changed or not
Yes that will give you a clear picture. But if he has changed you should be ready to change without getting emotional. Now you seams to be emotional about the situation
Sanket @sanket
Adapt to the fact that no relation stays same.
That’s a point
Exactly
Same to you brother and thank you
Okay thank you
Just leave it
