Verte @mushu
Okay so I’m friend since now 3 years with a boy and it’s been several months that I and my friends see many sings that he sees me has more than a friend. So it’s kind of awkward for me, at first I tried to ignore it while not giving him false signals. But I feel like this is not working he don’t get that I just like him has a friend and it’s stressing me I don’t want to use is kindness towards me but also I’m scared of losing his friendship
So I think I should tell him directly that I’m not interested of being more than friends but I don’t know how to do it so I don’t hurt him too much
There is no other way . One way or another someone will get hurt… tell him before it goes to another level…
Verte @mushu
Is the “I like you as a friend” is ok or it’s better to not say that ?
Niklaus @niklaus_
Once you guys have that conversation, things will not be the way it used be between u guys ever… you know that … right?
Verte @mushu
Yeah I know that too much it’s the 3rd male friend that I will lost because my feelings are not the same has their
Verte @mushu
But like I hope a little that he will not hate me
Niklaus @niklaus_
Ohhh you are a professional heart breaker … aren’t you?
Niklaus @niklaus_
Don’t you get it… It is what it is . You can have everything even if you are the richest person in the world … sometimes you gotta do the right thing… and i believe telling him asap is the right thing to do… consequences be damned!
Verte @mushu
As if I like this. It makes me feel like shit
Niklaus @niklaus_
I understand … But you gotta live with it … We all have our own baggage maybe this one is yours…
Sean_75 @raindrops_moon
I feel like it’s better to keep some distance and set a bit boundaries from both of you if you really don’t like him back. You’ll have to let him move on and know that you weren’t interested in him…
Verte @mushu
So I don’t know if anyone will see this but to close this post in a positive note I will tell what happened since then between that boy and me.
So I had decided to talk to him irl and make things clear between us, it was really stressing me but I had to do it for him and for me. Well it turns out that he had indeed a crush on me but it slowly faded away and now he only sees me has a friend. I’m so relieved and we had such a great and honest conversation after that.
The moral of this story is that sometimes you have to stop making the worst scenario in your head and just do it because it often turn out better than u expected.
