Okay so i had a friend group of 2 girls and we 3 were really close. Then suddenly one of them started speaking ill about me in front of common friends. The other friend who was bit close to me than the other one started developing a cold side and thought that i was jealous of her. I really miss her now and I really want to have her back. But she said some things to me( obv influenced by the girl who back bitched about me) that were really sad. I want to go talk to her but then again my self respect is coming in my way.
Help me!
Simran @st1199
Hey!
So, self-respect is when you are at extreme ends and you are the one who every time took the initiative to go and sort things. If you did, it makes sense else go and sort things and come back clear on things and you would be at a better place and in mind as well.
Sometimes, we need to wait to see if the other person cares for us even after things go wrong. 😀💜
I have always been the more caring one. I am just waiting for her to come back and clear things this time.
Thank you so much!!!
Simran @st1199
Great, it means you’re clear on how you want then just wait.
After a while, you will have your answers. 😀
If you are below 18 then I must say for your future that nobody is permanent. Make new friends. Make Many close friends. But seriously never make bestfriend you will never know when they will convert into your foe. And if you ever want to make bestfriend, search over social media or meet with someone whom your mates never saw him/her. When you will be of 25-26 you will get to know, their is no such things like bestfriend. Be friends with everyone even your foe, help everyone, listen carefully to their secrets but never ever spit those things to other. People will start loving you, try to be as funny as you can. People will come to you spontaneously. You will be attractive to everyone. But never ever think of making bestfriends, be close with everyone still. If you want her back, just be friend with her. Clear doubts which has been created. Just normally ask her for study related material maybe she will help you.
That makes sense. Even my mom says the same. I let people exploit my emotional self quite quickly and that’s why maybe they test my patience.
I’ve always been an overachiever type so I never really had genuine friends. They became jealous of me at some point or the other. After meeting her in the uni I thought I found a genuine one. And then again things turned out just the same.
I’m trying to cope up and feel self sufficient.
Leave them bitches and find new good friends
Ooooof this is some real shit. On it already now
