okay now im so happy that im cheering people up, can't wait for y'all to heal and one of your reason is adicares

Happy

Anyone from banglore came here before 6 months still don't have any friends 

Colleague

I am sad 
I just wanna listen sad songs and vent my feelings out..
just tell me the saddest song you ever heard or song which helped you in your extreme sad moments

If I don’t like having any sexual thing without having feelings first am I demisexual ?

Life

Ladies, could you please suggest a good shampoo for a girl, having no issues with dandruff but a lot of hairfall. Tried all the in market ones like Pantene, H&S, Clinic Plus, Tresemme... Thanks! 

Confusion

family member is feeling better now but im uncomfortable. i’ve shared about him in the past but it feels rude to talk about him on the internet without his consent. he’s 10-15 (thats his age range) and likes using pacifiers to calm himself down. it’s just weird..idk 

Family

Sexuality and culture are so often seen as different topics but I think there is something to note in the Indian culture about how sexually liberal and charged it was before the British came around. It is white people's idea to make homosexuality criminal and maybe a purity thing. But we are the birthpalce of Kamasutra ffs. Our sexuality and culture go hand in hand!!! I don't even want to begin talking about the openness and the sense of freedom with which these topics had been discussed earlier in the indian society. Have you seen Khajuraho temples? Nobody can say that Indian sexuality and culture are repressed. Precisely because it is not. It took me also so long to feel confident and comfortable in my own body because it is seen as such a taboo. I wouldn't speak about it with my partner also, my needs felt unimportant. But as I have started learning more about my sexuality and placing it in culture I feel even more confident about doing things that give me pleasure. Pleasure is not everything, but it is most definitely important to make any relationship last. My partner and I have been feeling so close to each other <3. I wish I had not missed out on my younger days, I am not very old, I am 24 now but I think I wasted 7ish years thinking about sex the wrong way, the ""shameful"" way, we are better now, more grown up and mature and ""shameless"" hehe

3am Thoughts

***Please excuse any miss spelled words or missing words or if something doesn't make sense or if I sound all over the place I tend to just express and jump all over***Hello everybody. I feel like I'm kind of stuck on making a decision and I of course know only I can make this decision but maybe expressing myself and seeing other thoughts on what I kind have been dealing with and having hearing some feed back from strangers might help. So basically a long story short.  I have been in my current relationship for over 7 maybe 8 years now and I been through it all from being cheated on lied to verbally abused never abused physically thankfully and great full but verbal abuse isn't any better I know. So basically yes I stuck around for my reasons of just being a VERY EXTREMELY KIND understanding individual/Partner because I also seen how my partner was raised and wasn't raised in way of respecting people but overtime things did get better with respecting me but there are times where he does get out of hand and disrespect verbally again because of disagreements and just because I finally stop taking his crap and sticking up for myself. I notice that since I have started doing this sticking up for myself because I get triggered from him getting loud with me or disrespectful with me I started bring myself out of character and become something I am not in the sense of maybe saying things that will trigger him like being sarcastic which I know he doesn't like but I do again in way because of the past of constant disrespect and hurt. I have also being trying to move on and forgive for his past history of what he has done but I feel like I am still stuck because I am trying to heal but can't fully heal because of little things that trigger me from the past like the disrespect of his behavior from when he was either again cheating disrespecting. Should I give myself time to heal separately in living space and stop working on clearly a DAMAGED relationship and see where things go. In the back of my head I know this the answer DUH but why is it that it's just much easier said then done, why does life also make it hard to do this because of the living situation 

Emotional Abuse

Life can be really monotonous at times, when it seems there's no way out of it.
Sometimes we become tired, unbothered hopeless,  whereas the only reality is that it's a play and we gotta find out true soul purpose.  How do we do that???

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