Okay I just read it somewhere and now realized that me getting bored in a healthy relationship is because I was grown up in a chaotic environment where fights and arguments were normal and my brain picked it up as love and find it comfortable so now I unconsciously pick up fights arguments and things like that to feel comfortable. It’s a freaking trauma response 🥲🥲. I can now justify my behaviour lmao
The approach should have been to get rid of trauma. Learn not to inflict it on someone and you just want to take to easy way, that’s not wise.
Dude you seriously need to chill. You can’t even tell if a person is kidding or not 🙄. Take a break sit back dude
Ok ok alright. It’s my bad habit to take things seriously.
It’s alright dude
Yes just did looking forward to work on it 🙂