Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

Okay. And where do I find such a guy? ☹

I don’t think there’s a formula to it. And tbh I am 22 and I have never dated for the exact same reason. But I have seen many around me having beautiful relationships with all the qualities mentioned and they all say… Go for a man who’s in love with you and and not the one whom you love.

The last line you wrote has so much beauty. I often think about this exactly. Also,since I am a medico, I tend to think medicos settle with medicos. Life will be easier. But there were no good boys in clg. Some were, but they were busy already before entering. So you know

I think whenever love happens to us it’ll be really beautiful though. Also why don’t you try some dating apps or something?

Small city, middle class family. Dates apps won’t do the job. Also ab aisa lagta hai, If I find the right guy, I would to spend my life together with him. But again caste system and all. Ab utna time bhi ni hai ki milen naye log, jaanen, fir baat aage badhe

You know when you want guys like rohit saraf and all 😛, but itni saari cheezen dekhni padengi saath sath main. Caste, profession etc etc. Also uske jaise log kahan milte hai duniya main, I wonder

Come on abhi toh you’re so young, you can certainly try a lot of things. You’re medico you save lives apni khud ki bhi bachani chahiye by trying new things with new people. 😅 I hope yeh rude sound nahi kar raha hai 😅

Lol Rohit saraf is definitely cute

No, it wasn’t. I just came to this site to find someone who might also be struggling like me. But I guess, I have to wait.😛

Lol yeah wait hi karna option hai abhi toh 😅 I really thought I am the most awkward person who has not dated yet. 🙈

Hahah, my friends tell me, tujhse kuch na hopayega. Kuch use kr teri beauty ka, tu jisko chaahe pata skti hai, and inside I am thinking like, they are definitely right.

Why havent you dated anybody?

It might sound narcissistic but I find it hard to find people with common sense and it actually makes me lose my patience. But also I have tried giving people chace but sometimes later I find them dumb 😅

Lol high five… It’s the dialogue for me kuch na ho payega cause same 🙈

No I totally get it. People are either dumb, or not that attractive or dont have good grammar etc . So why are you on this platform?

And since you find rohit saraf cute, i am assuming you are a girl😛. Otherwise , if it would have been a boy, I might jave asked his whereabouts. Lol

I don’t usually discuss any problems of mine with anyone so I thought this might be my opportunity to let it out.
Lol you are a vibe man I mean yeah you get the point of my perception about people for dating. 😂

Yeah I am a girl, sorry to disappoint you.

What are you pursuing?

Dumb boys are a major turnoff. Chapri looking boys too. With that sports bike,an iphone but zero in personality.

I am a petroleum engineer. Working on rigs and all.

Oh my god yes, hell yes chapri looking and the ones with no intelligence, I don’t mean the bookish ones but the ones who at least are practical and not the lovey dovey types.

I find it hard to believe ki jo hamain chahiye woh hamain milega😛

I have a friend of mine she tells me the exact same thing she says tera kuch ho nahi payega… Tune itni badi list bana rakhi hai yeh ek aadmi mein toh nahi mil payega 😂

Lol😂 it is good talking to you dude.

I am so new to this platform that I dont even know how kuch of it works. Otherwise, I would bave told you to ping me here only(if at all there is this option) and we could talk anonymously.😂

Yeah, same here you’re actually a vibe man I mean itna same dating criteria maine nahi dekha kabhi… I thought I am an awkward person but nahi hum kaafi log hai aise 😅🙈

Me too I joined the platform just yesterday and here we are today talking like friends. 😅

Hahah. Now I can proudly say. Akal and shakal donon chahiye. Lol😛

Also tumne try bhi ni kiya na ki kisi ko try krlete hain. Like we wouldnt want na ki saamne wale ka time waste ho

Hahahaha oh my god I have never related to someone like this before. Arey yaar sach mein try nahi kiya and the reason is so apt.

Haan sach mein dono chahiye yaar I mean mere pass dono hai toh samne wale ke pass bhi dono ho but dimaag ko priority halka sa zyada diya hua hai maine

Yeah bro. Feels great. Which city btw?

You know I searched on google like where can I right what I feel anonymously.and various options popped up. Kis kis pr kya kya likh diya I have no idea. Then got this. Finally logged in.

Delhi and what about you?

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Yeah this is actually a decent platform. People really don’t judge here. I mean aise real life mein koi nahi milta na

Real life main sabke bande hain. Tedhe medhe sabke.

I actually guessed you might be from delhi

I am currently living in indore. Soon about to leave it. My mbbs just got over 4 days back. I live near agra though.

Lol yeah tum kis city se ho? Delhi se hi kya?

Lol tedhe medhe… But this is actually true I mean girls will cry over men jinke pass bas birth certificate hota hai and I have seen this a lot isliye I can say it. I mean a real man will never make a girl cry and vice versa.

Oh congratulations on being a doc now

I mistakenly skipped your reply which mentions mere paas donon hain toh saamne wale ke paas bhi hon. 😂just read it. I am gonna be using this line in future.

Lol lol yaar definitely use it… It’s actually fun to see people’s reactions.

You know when I wrote ki I look good enough. I thought that somebody would judge me.but you didnt. You know when people tell me that I am pretty,I dont feel so. But then there are tons of guys in line toh maine maanna shuru krdiya😛

Arey self love is important man… And kisi ko bhi judge karna makes no point meri judgement ka kisi ne achaar thodi dalna hai jo har cheez pe judge karna hai… So yeah if you say you’re pretty that’s it period you are. ✌️

I am from aligarh basically

So in indore for studying right? how was your college life and hostel mein toh bahut maze kiye honge!

Initial years were fun. But later on it was a hell. Girls are so jealous of me. I dont know why. 😂 apne kaam se kaam rkhne wali bandi hun main. Tab bhi. So yes I hate my college now.

You know what I am thinking rn. That I wish two great guys join this conversation and we would choose one each and l8ve happily ever after. 😂

Lol yeh alag hi scene hai yaar maine toh college aur hostel mein itne maze kiye I mean agar aise unhealthy sa environment na ho na toh maza ata hai

Haha lol haan yeh ho jayega toh we’ll have a fun story to tell. I mean this will be funny if it happens.

I feel I was way more bubbly before before toxic things happened.

I think nobody will come here to find a partner. Most of the people.might be broken. Also do you need a fresh guy? Like ham fresh hain bachpan se

😛pretty single since birth

Yeah man I get it I mean toxic things that happened to me made me a bit rude and mean. I mean I can be casted in mean girls. Cause when I was nice I was bullied and gaslighted a lot.

I mean I have had flings but voh itni jaldi bas khatam ho jate hai… Out of nowhere I start disliking them 🤦😑

Haan but it’s such a good initiative like broken people can speak their heart out. I like this concept nahi toh society ne sab kuch kitna difficult bana rakha hai.

Dude we chatted like it was our inbox. 😂 shit got real

Hey. Are you the same anonymous girl as above. I guess not. What’s up

I agree with you.

I am not able to understand who is talking to whom

I dont think so. There is one more person who is talking to you.

Whatever we were talking was not meant to hurt anyone man I mean we just discussed it out. And no wonders noone is perfect but for people who haven’t met anyone yet have really high expectations. I mean after being single for 22 or 24 years won’t you have high expectations?

No offense taken. Yeah like if you find a good person then love is supposed to be a beautiful thing.