Ok so this is something I m holding up since a really long time because it is about someone really close to me but now it's getting on my nerve so the thing is i know a person who already have a boyfriend but this person hides the fact of having a bf and start talking to a very introvert and innocent boy and giving  him so much attention that he will end up falling in love, and it irritates me because that guy will get hurt really badly and i m feeling really trapped because I can't tell him the truth 
I don't know what to do 


If he is your friend then you should definitely tell him. If not then let it be it should not concern you much. You can't help everyone no matter how much you want to but you can't. 

I think you should tell that guy well friend or not tell him indirectly or just say that she already has someone 

Just tell the other person about the committed person

The thing is the commited person is my bff and I can't tell the other person as it will break the bro code kinda stuff 

Cheating

My boyfriend is an airforce officer and I am a medical student ! In this pandemic situation,my study is going on in online ! This is so frustrating! I get so much spare time with myself! On the other hand ,my boyfriend’s defence duty is still going on during this pandemic and he is always busy with his works all the time as before ! We are in a long distance relationship and we barely can communicate with each other ! I try to understand his situation as he remains always in a busy schedule! But my patience remains only for 3-4 days ! After that I can’t tolerate his busy schedule ! I really want to talk with him but he goes to sleep early because he gets tired after work and don’t have time for me ! It makes me really upset! I try to distract myself by doing other things but still I check my phone after 2-3 mins if he has messaged me or not ! And I see there is no reply yet ! This thing is disturbing my focus on study and daily activities! I don’t know what will make me  happy except him talking with me ! I just want a good communication with him ! That makes me happy most ! But he is always busy which feels toxic sometimes! I don’t want him to feel that I am an obsessive girlfriend but this is getting worst ! 

Long Distance Relationship

My boyfriend cheated on me during april 2023. His friends helped him out. The girl knew that i was his gf and they’re all from the same batch. We tried working it out but he wouldn’t be actively participating in giving efforts in rebuilding the relationship, he would say he’s trying but he would do nothing, it would disappoint me and it would make me angry which then would ultimately make me seem like a bad guy. Finally a month back he said he didn’t want to do continue it anymore and so i let go. He cheated on me during my exams, it was painful for me to rebuild the relationship while trying to forgive him but still i tried. I think i still haven’t healed properly from the betrayal. Recently i started dating a guy and i straight up told him that I don’t want to be committed cos mentally i am not ready to have my trust broken again. The second guy was also cheated on and he too has trust issues. He loves me a lot i think and i think he is too possessive. He accuses me of cheating on him all the time and recently told me that it’s over because he thought i was cheating on him. I’m pretty clueless rn, everyone is making it seem like it’s my fault.

Breakup

I have a guy friend, I get anxious when he texts. 
I'm confused, should I be a bitch or sweet? 

Crush

so i was in a live in relationship and it ended really badly but we couldn't change the flats because it was middle of the month so we decided to stay till the end but our fights got worse day by day and i used to sleep daily by crying, today he came and started taunting me for not putting clothes in Almirah and one thing to lead to another and he said he broke up with me and is leaving me because of my anger, crying and screaming . But he used to force me every day to have sex even today, even when I used to say no. So when he shut my mouth when I was crying and told me to not to create drama, I lost it, I literally lost it and slapped him. I still don't feel guilty about it but i don't know maybe I should talk to a therapist or consult because this is not ok. 

I had a pretty bad breakup last year and and can't really let go of tht him. I don't get in contact with him but I can't get him out of my head. I feel so angry and overthink when ever he comes to my mind and I feel like everything around is triggering me. I don't know what to do. How should I let go of him from my mind. I tried to forgive him but it's not happening. ll ever come a time where things related to him ll stop triggering me.

so a (almost) year back i met a guy online and we're good friends and idk when it happened but im sure its unplanned and even if so we wanted to take things slow but eventually we started liking each other and we were kinda dating. Its been more than a year and idk if its safe and I'm in my late teenage.So the problem actually is
1) we like each other, like i do fs but not as much as i used to idk about him and we barely talk these days.
2) whenever like over calls or texts when i try to be more childish or kiddy he doesnt responds the way i wanted to like i mean he wants me to be more mature and the plot twist here is i feel im more mature than that guy.
3)hes so into hustling culture and we both are from same academic backgrounds so i know too how much to struggle, and obviously people IQs are diff , so are their ways. Like i meant to say theres no such need.
4) He barely takes out time for me if he ever did we just end up sexting.
And he always end up saying 'if i just was busy for 2 days and couldnt be there for you or express my love, that doesnt mean my love for you had decreased or i stopped loving you'
should i consider all these as redflags?

Confusion

So I met a guy on a dating app I was just there to explore nothing much.
I met this guy and he's nice and our vibe matched we connected on other apps nd then we decided to meet sort of date and he was so nice to me he holded my hand nd I felt good that day.
 After that we talked a lot nd we met again nd he did all cute little romantic things nd me being bollywood lover I fell for all those things but after 1 day or two he said he still have feelings for his ex and I was like are you kidding why you did all those things when you still have feelings for your ex he said he was just ignoring his feelings but he just can't do it anymore his break up was pretty recent though and I didn't knew that he broke up like 2 weeks before meeting me on dating app so I was like ok it happens nd I started liking him and initially it felt like he liked me too but idk what happened he said he can't commit anything nd after some days I said okay let's not talk I can't just live with it pretending to be your friend he was like okay if you want this let's do it but after some days I couldn't resist myself to text him I texted him and I talk to him but it's not the same like before and I'm still somewhere in hope that he'll come back to me someday, so what should I do? Do I stop talking to him or just go with the flow? I also don't understand if his ex is really the reason he started distancing me? 

Relationships

I met this boy online 3 years ago and we soon became very good friends.  Eventually around in 8-9 months ago we had a fight and then we didn't talk for the next six months. I'll be honest these six months felt like a relief to me  because i felt he was actually too toxic for me, but i still missed him sometimes. On the other hand he became very miserable, his mental health ,his marks ,his career choices all started degrading. when i got to know, so just out of pity and just for the sake of the friendship, i came back , and i do see improvement in him. But I don't feel nice anymore, I don't want to stay but then i again think of how bad his condition was and then i change my mind. What should I do?( also disclaimer i don't like him like him and never did. we always had the sibling energy so please don't go in that direction)

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