Ok, so I’ve been in a relationship for more then 6 years with this guy.
Now things are changed, when he wants to talk he messages, and when he doesn’t wants to talk he says bye and leaves. When I continuously try to talk to him he blocks me saying that I’m being stubborn, or he switches his phone off. He is doing this thing from last 3 years I guess. Yesterday I ignored him for like 1 hour, when he wanted to talk. Then it was over for him. He blocked me from everywhere, be it whatsapp, Instagram, Snapchat etc. And said it is all over. When he used to get hurt because of me I was always there to comfort him. But I don’t even remember when was the last time he was with me when I was crying alone in my hostel room. He knew everytime when I was crying…but he was not at all bothered.
Thats tough. Have a honest conversation face to face and set clear boundaries and expectations if possible. I am sure you both will settle down these issues. Good luck
He doesn’t wants to sit and communicate and solve things out. He says sitting and talking calmly is wasting his time.
I don’t know what to do, he is abusing and expressing all the belief he is having about me. But He never ever in last few months sat and tried to even understand what the hell I’m going through.
Speak to him to make him understand.
Açha Bacha @soft_forest_2
Mitr samne sai milkar iss vishaye pr baat kijiye aur agar wo nahi milte hai tab aage badh jaiye.
He is breadcrumbing you… in simple words, just stay away from him… There are far better men out there…
But he says he loves me. And this relationship is of about more than 6 years. My bdy is on 3rd of November. Do you think I should meet him?
Reading this pises me off he is always trying to be dominative without carrying about your emotion and gets hurt when you do the same to him. That’s enough, for your self respect and for the betterment of relationship please stay away from him for many days or months after break up. If he then approaches you and admits all his mistakes then only you accept him stating all the conditions to not to disrespect you again. Hope it helps. Sometimes getting apart brings us closer
Thank you so much , will definitely try, hope this works. 🙌🏻
My best wishes are with you✌️