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Isha @issa

Ok so I’m straight but there’s this girl who praises me even after doing the bare minimum🤌. ‘Good gurl’ or ‘that’s my gurl’ is what she says everytime. I used to get annoyed at first but now I kinda get nervous (or get butterflies idk) when she does this😩!!
Aahh idk what should I do, she literally has a dominant personality or idk whatever I just can’t utter anything when she’s with me…
Aurghhh I hate it😩 …

kinda love it🗿
fvkhhnmfyyfhm!!!😭

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Anonymous

90% girls are bisexual and it’s normal

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Isha @issa

Ik it’s normal and id have any problem with it… it’s their life
what I mean to say is diff

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Anonymous

It’s just some extravagant, unnecessary thoughts which we might get from reading about many gender identities, we get a doubt within ourselves, which is somewhat normal

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Isha @issa

yeah but like it can be really confusing at times

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Anonymous

I know! But you’ll eventually figure it out yourself! Have patience! 💛💛

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Anonymous

Two things
1. There’s nothing wrong with being gay or lesbian
2. She can’t force u to be with her if u r sure that u r straight
I understand ur situation. It can be hard to jump to conclusions when someone is just being nice. Its even harder when they are beautiful lol. U don’t wanna be rude to her that’s great. But if she makes even the slightest advancement u r not comfortable with. U r within ur rights to set her straight (no pun intended 😂😂😂😂) Everything else she does can be taken with a pinch of salt.

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Isha @issa

no she doesn’t…earlier I used to get annoyed at her but the more I know her, I feel she’s not bad and no she has not forced me to do anything…
her words are enough to make me anxious 🤌🤌😭

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Anonymous

Well…I have a theory. Not gonna say it here. Check your DMs. We already connected lol.

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Isha @issa

ohh do we

@mnn

Okok

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Land of Blues @landofblues

Its the line between individual life and friendship. Most girls have an innate liking for other girls…they dont know it. Its a kind of sistership.

Now when someone is dominant, or strong in a sense both psrt of your mind plays. One part(your own individual self) gets annoyed…while the other self gives in,surrenders.

Now you decide…and let the one that you like domibate and win. Omg I am a professor . 😂😂😂🤣

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Isha @issa

well it made me more confused tbh🥺😭🤌

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Anonymous

Okay…clear your mind. When dominant people come around you will feel to “surrender”.
Get out for a moment and ask yourself, who you are. Would your friendship with her be good? Or your present life is better.

Wherever your answer is yes, with a cool mind proceed that way. 😊

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Isha @issa

OK I’ll just have to figure it out

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Land of Blues @landofblues

I am sure you can. Give it time. Spend a day without her, see do you miss her?
Just make sure, you feelings are from heart and not body. Cheers. Tk cr.

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Isha @issa

hmmm yeeaahh but it’s not like we meet everyday so I don’t think it would be an issue

Jetho @jetho

46 replies aapko answer mil gaya hoga !

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Isha @issa

haa kind of🗿

Jetho @jetho

Abhi bhi nahi mila !😅

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Isha @issa

nhi yaar mila but like I’ve to figure it out myself

Jetho @jetho

Ye to sabko pata tha starting se ! That u will do what u want !

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