ok just tell me how u feel about this situation
i have been dating since 4 months and recently
he ‘s started to hangout more with his ex girlfriend and she’s-in love with him too(they broke 1 year ago) but they are bestfs🙂 and she is my good friend too
ps:- I hate her to the moon and back
anyway now i don’t mind them hanging out
but then when i ask him to meet me he refuses
and when i talk about how it hurts my feeling
he backfires me saying i can’t dominate his life and decide who he hangs out with(which is true)
and then i just have to gulp all of my jealousy
i smell smtg fishy??
If you are still talking to a person after breakup either you are still in love or you are friends there is nothing like just talking…
Anonymous @tamako
Just tell him that while it’s okay for them to hangout, you’d appreciate it if he spent some quality time with you… And if he made you feel like you’re more special than this best friend in your special way. Because if he has decided to date you and not her, there better be a solid reason behind it and more importantly, you should be able to see that reason. If he’s making you feel less loved than the girl best friend, then he needs to do much much much better.
yea well he didn’t break up
his ex did😬
which is not fair ok!
she had her chance she broke up
and now it’s my turn…
and she keeps hitting on him…😑
but i can’t say anything cz she doesn’t know about our relation👉👈it’s private
Anonymous @tamako
Firstly, you shouldn’t hide about your relationship from someone whom both of you call a “friend”. Secondly, tell her, analyse her reaction and then be a better judge of the situation.
what do you think i haven’t tried?
i am telling him to just expose our relation to her
but he keeps saying that will ruin his friendship with her
Anonymous @tamako
Then he needs to grow up and you need to break up. Leave that toxic place asap. You’ve so many better things to focus on.
If she’s a friend, she would understand. And if he wants to be with you, he would do whatever it takes.
Dekho first of all, you should not date someone who is still friends with Ex. This is sabse bada red flag. Ab better hoga you should leave this and move on warna bhot toxic ho jayega. Take care of your mental health
The real question you need to ask is you want the guy or not?
If yes? We gonna need to talk
