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Anonymous

Ok I know I’m probably going to sound like a basic complaining girl here but that’s not my point so just bear with me. I feel like there’s no hope in relationships anymore. Every guy I’ve met has been an absolute douchebag or has never paid any attention to me. I know I don’t need a guys approval to feel confident in who I am but it’s nice to have that just to feel attractive once in a while, right? I can’t be the only girl who feels like that. I know most people will say “oh you just haven’t met the one yet, you’ll find him, not all guys are douchebags” but I’m not so sure. And it’s getting to a point where I feel like I’m the problem because guys who I’ve only been friends with or even guys in my family don’t like me and I seem to be the common denominator (unless all the guys I’ve met really are assholes and I’m just extremely unlucky) So I guess what I’m looking for is real hope. Not one of those lines saying “there’s plenty of guys out there, they’re not all bad, you’ll find a good one” I want actual encouragement and real hope about something, I don’t even know at this point. I’m so close to spiraling out of control to the point where I hate relationships and love and anything that has to do with it so this is pretty much my last attempt at hope so any ideas?

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Amod @wiki_kamat

I know and understand what you are feeling. What you are saying, is what I was thinking 3 months ago. You might not agree with me right now, because this is coming from a man and not a woman. But I also recently got away from something extremely toxic.
DO NOT CHASE. If you are chasing, that means what you want is running away from you. Just take care of yourself and love yourself. You are not the problem.
Shower youself will love. Take care of your hair, your skin, your body, your mind. That is you loving youself. Trust me, you will attract people like a magnet. Even people from your past, who haven’t been in touch with you for years will want you, even if you don’t want them. That’s how the universe works. When you love yourself, people will have no choice but to love you as well. I’m speaking from experience. It feels surreal, I know. But it’s real.

Obinna @dovesin

Nice reply ,totally truth what u said

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Amod @wiki_kamat

Law of Attraction. Worked wonders for me in just 2 months

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lonely @lonelyintrovert

Sarke…

Obinna @dovesin

I have dated if not ,close to 48 girls,one thing i have found out about relationships,no one is perfect but when their is commitment,both can work towards perfection ,depending on what people see relationship as because same person you re begging for their attention,has someone else who doesnt give a damn about them and they likely keep forcing themselves on u…be with the one who wants to be with u,its a long way…same way u re complaining about this dude,same way another guy is complaining too that u aint giving them a chance …most times people fall for the wrong persons because they have a picture of their ideal man or woman in mind ,sometimes the picture of what we want can never be what we need

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Anonymous

Giving attention and also time to girl but then also not accepting the guy and the proposal ! 😔 What more can I do?

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Aaren @aaren

I don’t blame you if you feel that way because it’s normal that we get something from them like love or care because we also give them what they want and if we don’t get or feel anything anymore from them and you are the only one who gives love to them, we will really get tired and not because we are the problem.

Anony Mouse @zapadoz

I am a douchebag

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