Oh boy I matched with this guy on a dating app and heās the human version of a golden retriever.
Initially he seemed relatable and okay. But as he opened up, it became difficult to talk to him.
He constantly talks about himself, his trauma, his achievements. I mean itās good to share and Iād love to listen but donāt share about your struggles when someone is having a weak moment and sharing their trauma. I told him I do not want a relationship with him. We arenāt compatible. He says okay but then flirts inappropriately. Making sexual suggestions and talking about my body. I told him off for that too. He talks about our babies. Like what the actual fuck. On one end you agree to respect my decision while on the other end, keep pushing the idea of us.
Heās the sweetest person you know. Like too good to be true. He preaches like a saint. And I want someone who can sit with me and chaar gaali de sake kisi ko.
The other day I was mad about something and he happened to call. I shared because he kept bugging. Gyan Dene lag gaya batao. Bc robot ban jau kya
To is kahani se humko kya seekh mili?
Heās educated and comes from a good family. Simple bhasha me kaha I donāt want to date you. Fir bhi line Marta hai. Then I said I like someone else. Tab he got quiet. So youād respect another man but not my decision to not date you? Where did we go wrong? Kya equality aur respect ki baat karte ho jab Funda hi clear nahi aapka. Block kar du kya isko? Iām being patient because mentioned he has been depressed for many years and now he has come out of it. I donāt want to trigger him in anyway. I have been through tough times and I understand that I should handle this sensitively. I wish him the best but I canāt pretend to be so positive all the time. Jhoot bol du Iām dating someone toh heāll leave me alone?
Koko @theunicorn
Gurlll i would suggest to move on from it not only for him but most importantly for your own mental health too. Sorry to say and i literally hate it to admit that guys sometimes are funny like this and yeah i completely agree girls are also like that sometimes but i guess here in your case as itās someone who is constantly giving preaching languages (itās again good thing but tbh too much of anything is really toxic) and youāre so nice person that even after all this you cared for him, hats off girl and please itās kind request from a girl to another girl that please leave him maybe on a sweet not or just be clear cut to him, it might hurt him now but in future he might understand that (letās hope he will), you are also going through tough times right so please for your sake leave that person, for both of your happiness and there are pleanty of guys out there who will care for you understand you and most importantly respect you and your decision. Much love and power to you gurl !!! If you ever wanna talk about anything i am all ears !! š«š¤šā¤ļø
Omg thank you sis! Thank you for understanding. I donāt feel anything for him so itās not even about moving on. Tbh itās about getting him out of my life. Heās draining. Since he doesnāt respect my decision, Iāll come up with a lie. Last time I got caught as he asked several questions about who Iām dating (Iām a terrible liar btw). This time Iāll make a good story with details so heād leave me alone for good. Iām positive that thereāll be someone for me but itās def not him and Iām not sad about it. Thank you for taking out time to read and respond so kindly. āŗļø Ah Iām relieved. I was questioning myself if Iām being a horrible person. Really thanks a lot for understanding! š«āØ
