Nowadays I’m longing for a girl’s message Idk why eventhough we are good friends the point is she consoles me and I share my every actions with her and still now I’m not sure why she’s not sharing any sorts of her things with me eventhough we have been friends for almost 2 yrs this happens idk why i even proposed her once but she blocked me and after sometime I said sry and then we became friends idk is there any trust issue with me I’m feeling bad on that☹️
Friendships and relationships are different for everyone. I can understanding wanting to have this person that you share your feelings to with reciprocate the same thing. However, if she does not want to share these things with you should not push her. Being able to respect someone’s personal boundaries is an important skill to develop for ongoing friendships.
Maybe there is something specific that is stopping her from doing that, if you have not already maybe gently try to ask her why she feels this way. Just make sure it comes across as warm and nonintrusive, you do not want to make her feel attacked.
You stated that you “proposed her once” I am assuming that means you proposed marriage? I am assuming that you both are only just friends, perhaps she feels overwhelmed by certain things.
Overall it’s sweet that you care about this person, just make sure that you’re doing everything you can and being openminded enough to allow this person to feel safe and open in her relationship with you.
Nope I just said I love her that’s not marriage proposal 😅I’m still a student and really don’t know how to start the talk that why she’s not sharing stuffs I’m worrying that I may ruin my friendship by asking that thing I can’t afford to lose a person who was there with me during my hard times😭
Me and my guy bestfriend. We are literally so like so close. He even knows that I kind of have feelings for him. He is a person who doesn’t share things. But that doesn’t mean he doesn’t trust me or he doesn’t love me or something like that. It’s just that he don’t want to share things. And that’s fine for me because I give him that space. Whenever he wants to open up he will. Recently he said me something that nobody knows. So yeah, he loves the fact that despite he not sharing things I’m still the same with him. Generally if ppl won’t share we will leave them saying you don’t trust me all that. But in our case it’s different. So I suggest you to try giving her space and make her understand that you’re there anytime and she can happily share things.
I’m sure I’ll be there for her evertime and till now I didn’t force her to share things she once said she’s an introvert but still I like her but icant express that and the thing is I can’t lose her
Kharthika @kharthika
She’s an introvert so it takes time for her. Don’t worry I hope you’ll never lose her
Will it even take years i think it happened in my case anyways let ur hope may come true
