Now, what do I do? oh no. I wish there was someone to guide me earlier, due to which I wouldn’t suffer now. I wish my parents hadn’t closed their minds up for me, thinking that “okay, she is independent. There’s no need to focus on her, let’s help the older one and put a silver spoon in her mouth” Why. I am in a position where I belong to nowhere. My career, my decisions, and my plans are all going doing the drain.
Why do I have to always settle for less? Why is it always me?
Why don’t you start with a bit of your story. Would love to hear you out!
I had recently decided to pursue what I want, but my parents are convincing me to do the thing which I clearly don’t want because of two reasons: I don’t fulfill the pre-requisite requirements, and I don’t want to do it. One of the fulfilments was actually my requirements of what I wanted to do and now I can’t even do that. Why couldn’t they make up their minds earlier and why do I have to do everything they say? It sucks. Now I have to settle for something lesser (which is not a bad option for a career but still).
And they are always way more concerned with what my sister is doing. Why? Gosh, it really is frustrating.
Hmm…whats your age because parents generally seem to let a bit go if they see you as a slight independent.What career options you are looking for and what they are suggestion? What reasoning they are giving for this option(i.e. why your sister’s option is so great)