Now sure if this is a confession or if this is the thing to say but I will this weird attraction towards divorced men. I want to sit with them, talk to them, date them and just be there for them. 
I know there is something terribly wrong with me but I meet normal single guys and I just don't connect with them. 

I do have this thing where I want to be a saviour for people. For my friends. For anyone who is part of my life because I want them to know that I care for them. 

Confusion

I'm going to settle as soon as i get a decent job , not doing that "enjoy your single days" shit, it's already shit and I'm tired of feeling alone and not being someone important. Atleast then, there will be someone i can rely on.

3am Thoughts

I'm a guy who don't want to go in a relationship till i became totally independent and my university takes all my time and i am afraid to get in to a relationship and get drained and it will leave me heart broken.
I think the best choise is to wait till I finish my uni and be financially stable so i can provide cuz i want a real relationship not to enjoy myself or something.
The problem is that I'm a medical student and i will finish my uni and be come independent by 30 and that's too much tbh😂.
And getting a gf is super easy for me I'm handsome and my female best friend always tell me about girls that have crush on me and i rejected many girls not because I'm cool ar something just because i know we might broke each other.
It's a long story 😂
What do y'all think i should do ?
Or give ma an advice.


I'm happy being single, I do things on my own. But sometimes I feel like nobody wants me, nobody chooses me and I'm unlovable. How do you deal with these feelings? 

Have you been single so long that it's hard to fall in love? 😅
I have been single since 2019. I decided not to get involved with anyone until I heal my past and understand myself. That's been going great. I feel like I was living a lie for the people I was dating. I did not have much of my own life. 
I do now. I have hobbies. I'm understanding myself better. I've been taking therapy and improving. I was thinking to may be start dating again. 28F here. But the deal is... I'm not finding anyone attractive. And it's not like I have super high standards or I feel I'm arrogant. I just don't feel attracted to guys.
I even introspected if I'm into women but no. I am straight. My opportunities for dating has been limited and the people I have encountered on dating apps are either emotionally unavailable or too clingy that they propose in the first week!! And then there is this expectation they have of me to reciprocate. It's crazy to commit to someone with a few days of online conversation!
I've been telling myself that I just haven't met the person I'm compatible with. A passionate love story is all I want but I am not feeling it for anyone you know what I mean... 😅
Anyone? Any similar experience? Or any suggestions? 

Haa anyone ever experienced it?

I really got a lot of love to give someone but i can't just give them to random people it makes me uncomfortable but then i have to find a girlfriend but i literally hasn't come out yet and im not planning to because of my religion :( 

LGBTQ

Hey guys!
I'm new on here and lately I've been kinda introspecting and realising that I still haven't had a meaningful relationship in life (I'm 22), I have been open to relationships but I have never had the courage to pursue a girl I like romantically.Now I'm done with college and I feel like there is really no hope in the future.Been feeling kinda down thinking about that lately 

Lonely

I'm a boy from Kerala, I'm not that good looking and I don't have a relationship. I'm 26 and i never had one. I wanted to be in one, i tried like so much tinder bumble everything. I didn't even get one like, I'm using it like for the past 2 years not even one match. I'm sexually frustrated and mentally exhausted. I even tried sex with money but i lost so much money and my mind. I thought it would make me happy but it didn't. I don't know what to do, I'm in a place where everyone one around me is having a relationship some time more than one and here I'm listening to their stories. I feel like there is no point in living. What should I do

Sexual Health

I'm 20 yrs old, I've never dated anyone, haven't even had any "almost". I feel lonely.

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