not to live vicariously through others, but i wish i had a cool group of friends that i can go on road trips with and be comfortable around and talk to and not worry about whether they like me or not. I’ve had really toxic friendships in the past but i dont want that to hold me back as a person. I’m 21 so im still young and not tryna live life in a linear way, but i was also sheltered during my teen years so i feel like i have missed out on a lot of experiences growing up.

Other

is it wrong of me to know what kind of friends i want at the age of 28? I've been told I'm stubborn for not bothering getting to know someone when I notice they hardly talk to me/ignore me. 

Friends

I was trying to help friends out with their problems lately but ended up making myself really tired and often worried about them Sometimes… I think that I haven’t done my best for them because I don’t have the strength or knowledge to give them the best advice. I felt sorry and bad to my friends that I couldn’t do enough…

3am Thoughts

I think life gives and takes giving me space and taking away friends . One has to go I am so poor at making friends like genuine friends who will listen you guide you and be with you when you are at your lowest .and one you for that friendship

Is it normal to have no friends ?

Why do people fake out soo much??? 

A - B's friend for years
B - A's friend for years

So I've been (online) friends with A and B for a little over a year now, lately, I've been just thinking that A and B's life would be better without me, B has been telling me that A would talk to her everyday, A told me that they're feeling awkward when they try to talk to B. They used to talk on and on and B just seemed happier than now. When I became their friend, it wasn't A and B anymore, it was now A B and C (me), they included me in everything, I'm now the one who listens to B's problems. And now, B's telling me about how A and them talk for hours everyday and how they don't do that anymore. I'm just overthinking about what if they'd be happier if I was gone? What if I messed their friendship up? Would they go back to normal if I'm gone? And I just can't tell them about how I'm feeling 'cause they're already going through so much stress everyday, I can't push myself to tell them my problems and burden them with it. I just really want to talk to someone about it since I've really held it in for way too long. 
Thanks for reading

you know it's kinda cliche but..im at my fking limits and i really dont hv someone to rely on since they hv their own circle of friends:) haha yk what just happened none of my friends actually help me.. arghh and also someone tell me how does it feels to hv someone that care about u..

Failure

I am currently in a thinking about something and would like to share it with others and see what they think.

The situation is as follows:

There is a friend (let’s call them X) who is leaving and there are two friends (Y and Z) and we all belong to the same friend group.

X planned to do something with me before leaving. However, the day that we were supposed to hang out together, friends Y and Z started asking X to go out with them to a performance and X agreed and cancelled with me. Again, this was the day we were supposed to hang out and it was after a previous reschedule.

After what happened, I stopped hanging out with that group and speaking with them without any explanation because that really hurt me. Currently, whenever that group hangs out with the bigger friend group, I don’t go because I don’t want to speak with them, even though sometimes they invite me and that kinda makes me lonely now and I don’t know what to do. Am I overreacting to what happened? Wanna hear what you guys think.

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