i could be your ears ! i just finished having a break down while meditating cause of my family i need to hear about others struggle and give them advice :)
Hi, …admittedly I was nervous about this but anyway I got a lot I’m responsible for at such a young age but all of it was basically ripped from me and I haven’t been able to recover since. Almost like everything I worked so hard for school, sports, the only relationship I ever cared for all just kinda crumble in front of my face. The most recent thing and important thing I lost was my relationship and even though I could clearly see everything good for me was slowing stopping as long as I had my partner/best friend none of it was as bad But that is gone now as well
i lost my best friend due to my brother doing very selfish things causing us to move miles away and she was the only person who ever cared for me and understood me i’ve watched my life crumble while growing up and i understand how you feel but let me tell you i’ve changed so much and i can’t say i’ve become a better person but i have learned more from everything that happened to me and learned who to trust and who to not trust everything that was taken from you steal it right back but 10x better losing your partner and best friend is one of the hardest heartbreaks but this is a new opportunity for you to discover a new you someone who was waiting for you and now you caught up to it be sad cry do anything you want to deal with what you went through but don’t run from it please it’ll hurt u more later work on yourself more maybe try mediating or doing old things you loved as a child
Totally understandable…when I try to do things to make me feel better I just isolate myself without any second thought then with the person that left me my partner/best friend often shows signs of us being together maybe in the future but then I also feel like that won’t happen but I have given my all to this person even when I had nothing to give I still gave….we talk often until they become upset and block me and we have fought problems together as a team with everything since we met 4 years ago but it’s like bro I don’t even do anything wrong to people you know? I’m such a stay in my own lane type of person and don’t bother anyone’s peace or disturb them and I was a very friendly person but then all of a sudden my peace and happiness had to be bothered but it’s like why? Why does that have to be taken from me when I don’t do nothing wrong to anyone for me to deserve that….we used to spend 24 hours together we had most of our classes together for 5 days a week and spent the night every weekend literally happy on each other hips all day….I truly thought sadness wasn’t even a thing I thought it would never happen to me I thought once you become happy nothing can stop it …granted it was the first time of my life where I had 0 worries
right person wrong time if y’all both truly love each other and want pure intentions with eachother you should work on it and try y’all best to help each other understand i don’t believe in breaking up and getting together later i feel like you should fix each other in the relationship for a stronger bond not leave and come back and expect a brand new person yk? if they don’t want to continue the relationship but you still love them you should distance yourself so you can start getting your life together the more ur around them and the more mix signals they give u the more it will get more stressful and complicated for you
YES exactlyyyyy like they say “idk if I can ever see you that way again” but there is so many times throughout the day where they show the exact opposite……they often choose to block me instead of dealing with the situation straight up and we become best friends again but it’s like I miss never having issues you know? When I would wake up and be excited for stuff and we did everything together happily….I have been told about the “right person wrong time” and I don’t disagree but I’m so confused on what the play is on that like what do I do for that to be successful ….we so often have issues expressing our feelings lately they are more of a really angry person and I release it in only sadness but there is no one can touch my heart with only words like this person can and I always believe you only get that once in a lifetime and I know I found it who I want the rest of my life with and I’ve known for years now but what more must I give up to solidify my position that i want in this persons life
I’m here.
