Nobody wants to talk to me. When somebody from outside of my friend group comes and talk to us, they look at my friends and talk, they never look at me or ask me anything. My friend group consist of me and two other girls. Whenever we are talking they talk to each other, this one girl never looks at me while speaking. Idk what’s wrong with me. I always try to engage in conversations and try to gain people’s attention but nothing works. This triggers me, no matter how good of a mood I’m in, this ruins everything. Why am I invisible?
Anonymous @thinking_buddha
Hello buddy… We all have been through such events and experiences… I will just say that friendship is never forced. We can never force someone to like us or be with us. There is no need of this as well… You’ll realise one day that 90% of people will come to you only for some work or some motive, and will leave when it is done, so having much expectations from them is not a good option. You don’t need to worry if you have real friends in life, if they will be there for you, then you don’t need to take anyone’s validation.
However, in general, social skills can always be improved for better networking and opportunities. But never expect them to become your friends or well wishers.
Virtual Hugs 🤗🤗
Yes. But having nobody to talk to is such a worse situation to be in
How are you feeling right now? Let’s connect
You’re not invisible. You don’t need to seek for their attention, you need to focus on yourself first.
I’m enough focused on myself that I’m losing people in my life. And I ain’t seeking attention, I’m needing social validation as a human being.
