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Anonymous

Need some Suggestion…
I met a guy on a dating app. It was the first time used a dating app or been on a date with someone. He was polite and harmless. When we started talking he was very interested initially but after our first meet his message frequency was less then after our second meet he gave me complements like “you are photogenic” he said he want to go on third date but he cancelled at last moment. After two days he replied to my message like he got a muscle pull and he is on bed rest. Then he ghosted me. I was left heart broken because I liked him. Is this a gentleman’s way to end thing. If he didn’t like me in person he should have said and ended it in first date itself right ?

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@cave218

Maybe he didn’t have the guts to face you because he couldn’t find himself deserving for you.

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Anonymous

I gave him all the hints I can that I am into him. I respect his choice but atleast I deserve a closure

@cave218

You do deserve a closure and you do deserve a justification as well. But sometimes we need to let it go. Because holding up hurts more than losing it.

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@helpinhand

He is having communication problems and he is immature. Both ways he is not fully interested in you. Maybe you are backup plan for him.

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Anonymous

Yeah I he should have told you why he is not interested. Being sad is totally ok. Try to move on

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Anonymous

It is definitely not a good way to end things. Thinking about it now, if I was in the similar situation, I would have needed a proper closure to move on. I would have tried to contact that person and would have loved to tell it to his face that he did not deserve someone like me. It’s about self love…he was not at all honest with you. I think you are amazing and deserve to be with someone who values you and is honest. Look at it as a good thing, you are now open to many good people out there who deserve your love. Don’t let that asshole control your feelings… Take your time to heal and spend more time with family and friends to take your mind off it.

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Anonymous

Those are enough hints.
I mean if you are doubtful that he doesn’t like you, means its sure that he doesn’t like you.
You know love and liking cannot be gained forcefully. So be kind and let that heavy ship sail away from you.

Also another thing. Beauty and appearance are only for crushes and infatuation. The true one will love for who you are.

It’s better he ignored you rather than playing games with you.

Choice is yours; be lost in his chats or hit restart🍷

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Leon Pheonix @leon_pheonix

It’s the worst way to end a relationship…if you don’t mind we can connect cause I’m also looking for a sensible girl

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