Need some suggestion. How to talk to an ex-best friend who wants to be friends again? Sure I understand that I shouldn’t be much attached this time but every time I talk to her, I feel like we both are strangers. I find it easy to talk to my therapist but this girl… We both have changed so much and I have chosen to ignore and let go of those bitter memories but I don’t know what and how to talk… I feel someone violated my WhatsApp space whenever I see her text… it is so difficult to reply… I really don’t know how to handle this. She broke my trust and I find it hard to trust anyone now… even her… I really struggle to talk to her as we do in front of a stranger from another country!!
Jst say it on her face… That u cant trust her again and she should stop messaging u… Nd then block her.
it happend wid me twice wid same bestie a girl on first i did some thing not that big but she blocked me stopped talking and next time she did same 3 days before my bday on first we didn’t talked to each other that time one friend of mine sorted it we were good but this time i left her she tried approaching me i ignored coz i’m not getting that i was feeling that i’m fool if i talk this time i’m not feeling attached coz it’s been 6 month we didn’t talked and saw each other and they way she said me before my bday and blocked me i was sure i’ll never talk to her so idf i say talk to har say her i’m not able to connect i’m not getting same vibes this time we can’t go along together so it’s better we be lil distant
Don’t worry just have a word with her and this time be calm and don’t get angry or show u r hurt with her because of what happened in ur past. Just keep smiling every time and wherever or whenever u see or meet her. She should realize what has happened and i’m saying this not for the sake to take revenge but to show her that u r happy without her being or even her being in ur life. Such things doesn’t affect u much anymore.
naah i don’t care at all few weeks back she approached me on wassap by using unknown number we had chat got things cleared and in last i asked her that i’m gonna block u bye i’m happy here
Do u feel what u did was right?
Tell me that first
yep coz she said like tu saga nhi ho skta kbhi kisika and if i have to say it was something related to past that she brought up and even widout listening to me she used that fking phrase for me i’m not saying i’m totally correct but what ik and i think is if i’m having a bond wid someone and if something goes wrong i’ll disacus that calmly not by cursing and try to save the bond we have not just by cursing and blocking person everywhere and when u feel better then approach that person after months and ask him/her to clear out dude this is not the way so idk but i think i did what i felt ryt
Be calm and wait for the right moment and approach her.
yaa sure… btw howz u
I’m great and Sorry for late replies. May I know ur name if u r fine with it.
it really just depends on what you think will be good for you, maybe you can even talk it out with her, but i think that you yourself comes first in any situation
