My whole 20s I lived in either home or pg. I went to a government college which was not a happenning college and used to be just for 2 hours. I literally feel that what a boring and sad life I have. I am 31 and still in my home. If only I would have got to have friends and went to party, trips and night outs. I literally wasted my life indoors. I didn’t visit any place and didn’t get much friends. Right now I am with my parents craving to have friends and go out. But now almost everyone is getting married or having kids. I think the party is on in 20s. In 30s everything is quiet. If you are married well and good else you just suffer the loneliness and boredom like me.
Why aren’t you getting married bro then. Marriage is such a beautiful thing. I really believe in the institution of marriage.
Why?
Yes
Yes I am. That’s what makes my life more difficult. I can’t easily go anywhere I like. That’s why my whole 20s I was indoors. But I do feel depressed now. I really want to get the job, go to other city. Live alone but at the same time meet new people and go to trips. Live a life I am craving since my 20s. But I doubt if I would be able to.
My parents are looking for a groom. But truth to be told I still don’t want to marry. I want to go to other city, have a job, live alone, make friends and go to trips. The life I wanted to have since my 20s. But idk if I would be able to.
Better late than never bro. Apply daily for jobs on LinkedIn. Definitely you’ll get one and live your life to the fullest. Be independent. It’s a privilege.
True I understand, so how you are managing this? And when will you marry?
I am a girl. And actually my parents are searching for the groom. I am done with being alone. But at the same time want to live alone instead of living with my parents here in my hometown. I want to live in other city and alone but the same time going on trips, going to book cafes, meeting new people and living my life. And then only do I want to marry. But after living a boring 20s I feel like my whole life would be boring.
So you have to do arrange marriage? Are you talking to any guy whom your parents are choosing for you?
No
Ok, if you want to share something, am here
Do you have friends!?
Yes I have one female friend
Ok, do you want to talk and share anything?
