Pearl Pearson @scarlet03
My sister is friends with my ex. She says she will not cut off with him as they were already friends but it really bothers me. And Iβve become distant from her because of this. Am I being stupid to feel this way?
Why are you so worried?
Pearl Pearson @scarlet03
I donβt want them to be friends . Iβm just jealous she gets to talk to him and I donβt
He was your ex then why to get jealous just move on in life
I just donβt want them to be friends
If you force more on your sister then she might get annoyed or angry with you and wouldnβt talk to you so just ignore your ex and coz of him donβt fight with your sister.
Itβs like she chose him over me
Firstly ask her why is she talking to him and then say that you donβt like that you keep in touch with him
I have already done this. She says she will not stop talking to him
Then it can be like she is into him or may be in relationship π
Dude donβt put her in such situationπ
Itβs just an assumptionβ¦
Okies cool.
Coz the way her sister is saying and reactingβ¦
Makes little senseβ¦ Already sheβs going through a lot. So I donβt want to let her down. Thatβs it
No , not at all β¦your sister should do what makes you comfortable
Pearl Pearson @scarlet03
I confronted her. She said Iβm stupid to feel this way and I should let it go
Have you moved on yet ?
No
Hi - is there any reason that you donβt want them to be friends other than the ex part???
Ummm No. Itβs just that he really hurt me and broke up with me and still she wants to talk to him and be friends with him
I would say donβt force her to do something its not gonna work that way. Just tell how do you feel and let her decide. But donβt expect. Hope she will understand
Yes. You are being stu pid for feeling this way. Sorry if I am harsh, but itβs true. You should learn to move on and respect others relationships. Just because he is your ex, doesnβt mean he has to lose all friendship with people associated with you.