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Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

My sister is friends with my ex. She says she will not cut off with him as they were already friends but it really bothers me. And I’ve become distant from her because of this. Am I being stupid to feel this way?

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22 replies
@kai_06

Why are you so worried?

Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

I don’t want them to be friends . I’m just jealous she gets to talk to him and I don’t

@kai_06

He was your ex then why to get jealous just move on in life

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Anonymous

I just don’t want them to be friends

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Anonymous

If you force more on your sister then she might get annoyed or angry with you and wouldn’t talk to you so just ignore your ex and coz of him don’t fight with your sister.

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Anonymous

It’s like she chose him over me

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Anonymous

Firstly ask her why is she talking to him and then say that you don’t like that you keep in touch with him

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Anonymous

I have already done this. She says she will not stop talking to him

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Anonymous

Then it can be like she is into him or may be in relationship 😅

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Anonymous

Dude don’t put her in such situation😐

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Anonymous

It’s just an assumption…

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Anonymous

Okies cool.

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Anonymous

Coz the way her sister is saying and reacting…

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Anonymous

Makes little sense… Already she’s going through a lot. So I don’t want to let her down. That’s it

Anonymous

No , not at all …your sister should do what makes you comfortable

Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

I confronted her. She said I’m stupid to feel this way and I should let it go

Anonymous

Have you moved on yet ?

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Anonymous

No

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Anonymous

Hi - is there any reason that you don’t want them to be friends other than the ex part???

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Anonymous

Ummm No. It’s just that he really hurt me and broke up with me and still she wants to talk to him and be friends with him

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Anonymous

I would say don’t force her to do something its not gonna work that way. Just tell how do you feel and let her decide. But don’t expect. Hope she will understand

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Anonymous

Yes. You are being stu pid for feeling this way. Sorry if I am harsh, but it’s true. You should learn to move on and respect others relationships. Just because he is your ex, doesn’t mean he has to lose all friendship with people associated with you.

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