My sister in law has too much interference in my household. My in laws inclination towards her is too much. Don’t know how to handle this!! 

I wish I had the answer to this my dear. But please do note the reason is not financial 

The former. Irritating and dominating to a high level.

Well i hate to say this but she technically is part of the family since birth and therefore would have a say in familys business. Theres very little you can do about it. 

Yeah… she has a part not the complete decision maker of even our lives

Im confused . Are you talking about your husbands sister or your brothers wife (they both are sister in laws to each other )

Family

I’m a stay at home mom currently until I’m able to get my license. Long story short my father never wanted to teach and now my husband has to teach me. I’ll be 20 in January. Anyways my husband does not understand how hard it is to not be able to go out and to have to stay in all day taking care of our son. I am a full time online student and today I had 5 assignments due today and I was stressed out to with my son because he was fussy and I had an assignment that was acting up. I just finished my last assignment. Before I finished it my son needed to go to bed and my husband asking if we were going to bed and I said yes but I’m not ready because I have a lot to do still.  So he waited until the last minute to say he was going to bed and I asked if he was going to take our son and he said no because he can’t put him to sleep. Well I said it’s because you never tried. Tbh I don’t think he’s really been there for our son.  It hurts to say it to because he pays for everything since I don’t work but I feel like I do everything. I clean the house. I cook. I change and bathe our son. And I make sure we are saving money. And I am a student and I make the appointments and I do the laundry. And I please everyone because if I don’t they ask what wrong with me. I really want to know who’s in the wrong my husband questioning me why it take the whole day to do hw or me the one doing everything in the house so he can come home and relax. 

Marriage

I have an emotionally and verbally abusive husband . We have lot of animosity between us . He is very controlling and disrepectul . He is also very untrusting and always doubts me . He is socially reclusive and awkward and a loner too. He has zero friends and is unable to form any friendships or value any relationship. He doesnot even want me to form any friendships and his unsocial nature makes him unpopular in any circle we move around in . Because of him , i also dont have much of a social circle and it is so isolating for me . He is not much of a companion or partner to me either . I feel so suffocated in this marriage . 
He is not my equal in anything . Be it social nature, intelligence, emotional IQ , personality or smartness , i know that i am much better than him . But all my talents and qualities go down the drain because of the person i married. I really badly want out of this situation . I am financially dependent on him and i have a daughter to think of too. 
I dont know what to do here. Anybody has any word of advice for me? 

Emotional Abuse

I am quite firm in my position that romance need not be my goal in life. 

-Anne, Anne with an 'E' (2019) 

Movies

All the thing is described in my @ name ... 

Here it is. I’m from Belgium and left for Japan where I my husband lived. I left my family and country for him. We married one year after I’ve got in Japan. I was 20 he was 27. 

I waited almost 7 years to have à proper wedding, that’s was a total disaster. 
The place where we made the wedding delayed a lot the hair set trial and make up. Finally we found out that the hair and make up artist couldn’t even don’t a simple ponytail not a proper liner wing. 
I had to don’t my hair and make myself the day of my wedding ... can you believe it ...? The day you’re supposed to be taken care of.. 
my husband spent the whole ceremony talking to his friend, he didn’t looked at me once not told me I was beautiful. He just told me «  yah your hair and make up is same than usual » YEAH ?! Maybe because I had to do it myself looser !!! 
He decided that we would arrived together at the guest room ... so no bride walk for me... I felt like he wanted all the spotlight on him ... 
he didn’t even put the ring on my finger ... the wedding staff forgot to make us sign the wedding no agreement paper which was the most important part for me .... 
how come ??? I spent all my money on this wedding and I feel like it was the worst day of my life ... it’s been over a Year now but I’m still making nightmare about it and feel so depressed... I feel like I will never have a proper wedding ... it was the dream of my life now I’m 27 and feel so old.. Sometimes I’m even thinking of getting a divorce even tho I love my husband just to get a proper nice wedding ... 

Throughout our life we come across many people they come and go, they are meant to come to our lives as they are our teachers teaching valuable lessons.
Just think in this manner and you shall overcome all the unwanted things popping on your mind😇

Self Love

Hi! Need some advice or just a chat that can calm me down maybe .
I'm not even sure if this is a problem but I'm going through crazy anxiety and sleepless nights.. because of my fiance's mother. 
I love my fiance and he is just an amazing man.. it's just him and his mother at home and I have grown very close to his family . My wedding is 7 months away but since the past few months IV realised that my MIL to be is so over bearingly dramatic. Some would say it is harmless drama and she has nothing against me and she really likes me a lot but it's just her personality. She needs constant attention from everybody specially her son and now me. And her son , my fiance has been fed up off it very sadly cause his whole life he has gone through this constant drama and attention seeking hyperness from his mother. He had confided in me about this before he got married and not like he is a bad person he loves his mom and he is a great son to her but it's just there . The constant irritating nature and drama and overbearing attention seeking nature obviously gets to him . I love him a lot cause he is a gem of a person and I promised him that I will be there with him thru thick and thin and if this is something he deals with at home I will have to deal with it ,with him. That is the right thing to do. 
But now suddenly since the past few days and specially with covid and lockdowns  her drama and crazyness has gotten really overbearing and I hate to say it but I am going through a lot of anxiety on how will I live with this and what have I signed up for. Even though whenever Im in their house and I spend time with them I'm not that tensed and I feel like for now she's ok . Because end of the day I'm going back to my house . So one or two hours of her hyper drama is ok. But dunno how it ll be once I start living with them. 
This is no reason to leave the relationship . I love my fiance so much that I can not think of life without him and I am so excited to live with him and start our life together . But she is always gonna be a part of it and as much as I hate to say it I am soooo sooo scared of how am I gonna be in peace with living with such drama around all the time.There is no way we can move out cause it's jus so criminal to leave her living alone . My fiance will not have the heart to do that and neither will I.. but there is this strong fear of living with her that I am  not able to get rid of. 
If anybody has gone through the same thing please do suggest on how to deal with it, and if it's an unnecessary fear please do tell me how to calm down. It's just spoiling my health and sleep and it's not a nice feeling to have.
I know I need to figure it out when it comes to it .. but nothing seems to help get this fear of living with her out.. and if any of you ll know how to deal with it would really appreciate some help!!.

Thank you! 

Anxiety

I don't know what I'm feeling, is that even a thing? I've been emotionally abused my whole life, bad social anxiety, extreme introvert, glorified hobbit, basically I don't have a life outside work, and thus not many friends. I got one close friend, so close he's more like a brother. I'm lucky to have him, I'm one of the few he opens up to, and I'm honored to be one of those lucky people. Him and his wife have been having some marital issues, and I've been nothing but supportive of their marriage, even before he proposed.     Every morning he unloads his feeling onto me about their issues, and I'm fine with that it, it helps him and doest bother me. The other day he threw me for a loop, when out If nowhere he randomly said, and I don't remember the whole thing at this point, that basically he doesn't ask me to hang out outside work because he is scared of developing feelings for me because he's such an open book with me (important note, his wife isn't one of those that assumes every woman he's with is out to get him). I didn't know what to say, so I just didn't say anything. He knows I don't have feelings for him like that. Now I don't know what I'm feeling. The only other person I can talk to is me abuser or someone who would immediately be judgy. I just don't know, things are awkward know, and I hate it. Thanks for listening yall.

One Sided Love

When he tells you he wants to make it work bc he cant bare the thought of not seeing his kids every day... isnt that a slap in the face, he pretty much said he is only with me bc of the kids right ?

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