My second husband is older to me by 15 years. But he have his previous wife n they have two kids between them. They separated for more than 18 years but my hubby bore every responsibility in his kids studies for which m happy,glad n proud but I really get angry when he sends money secretly or gift his previous wife costly things when he always tells me of his financial plights. I wonder sometimes whether my future is safe with him. My account balance is only 7000. Even if I leave him u don’t have anywhere to go n bcoz of dat I have to b wit him coz he is da provider of the roof above my head. I only wish dat I can earn enough to pay my house rent n survive.
Hey. Have you ever spoken to him about these issues? I really believe in communication and maybe if you try to talk to him, you both will be able to understand each other’s point of view?
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She is the mother of his children, nothing will ever change that ever. They aren’t a family anymore and he chooses to be with you everyday just talk to him about it. Verbally don’t put anything down in text it won’t help
I think the only way to solve things is to talk then through. Lack of communication might create a deeper gap.
Don’t worry about it. I know that he is taking care of their needs but always remember that he is connected by you emotionally which is not less than anything. He choosed to be with you for some reason.
Even if you have any problem, communicate with him for that. Make things better between you.