My relationship was getting really overwhelming. We were having arguments on the same thing again and again and again without it going no where. Every time he apologizes and says that he would not do it again but it happens again. It has been draining lot of my energy and Iโm not in control of myself like I canโt control my anxiety, itโs affecting my health. So I told him I need a โbreakโ from this relationship and that we could work on ourselves in our time apart. Itโs been a day and he still hasnโt responded to the message.
I donโt know what to think.
Ricky @ricky_
Heyโฆdonโt worry. Wait a bit, you need to have a lot of patience to resolve this bcoz both of you might be going through a lot of stress irl. So, it was better you took a break for a while but always keep in touch. Have a healthy relationship. I had a similar experience like this recently but we eventually took different paths. We were just friends but we used to argue a lot about being toxic and crap like that ๐น anyways, whatโs important that If you have feelings for him and vice versa, then try not to argue always and ask him genuinely if he is going through a tough time or he just argues without any reason.
Thatโs the thing. He doesnโt wanna talk about why he feels low or depressed. Doesnโt want to be helped nor wants to improve and that makes me feel restless and helpless. Itโs like he wants to complain about things which are really messed up in his life and how he is messed up because of that, but doesnโt wanna heal or do anything productive or healthy to be better or feel better. I get it complaining helps you get things off your chest but you have to try to let yourself heal he doesnโt wanna do that nor communicate
Ricky @ricky_
Hmm right, he has to open up and also try to change himself. Anyways, if the relationship is affecting you in a negative mannerโฆthen you should slowly drift apart like I did. We can only try our best. Take care ๐งก
Thanks, u too
Why you want him to respondโฆblock him move onโฆthis relationship is toxic and you both know it
Because as itโs just about taking some space and not break up completely it wouldโve been helpful if he responded to it, I wouldโve felt he wants to make this work and try to be better. But there is no acknowledgement
Yeahโฆmove onโฆblock him