My relationship was getting really overwhelming. We were having arguments on the same thing again and again and again without it going no where. Every time he apologizes and says that he would not do it again but it happens again. It has been draining lot of my energy and I’m not in control of myself like I can’t control my anxiety, it’s affecting my health. So I told him I need a ‘break’ from this relationship and that we could work on ourselves in our time apart. It’s been a day and he still hasn’t responded to the message.
I don’t know what to think.
Ricky @ricky_
Hey…don’t worry. Wait a bit, you need to have a lot of patience to resolve this bcoz both of you might be going through a lot of stress irl. So, it was better you took a break for a while but always keep in touch. Have a healthy relationship. I had a similar experience like this recently but we eventually took different paths. We were just friends but we used to argue a lot about being toxic and crap like that 😹 anyways, what’s important that If you have feelings for him and vice versa, then try not to argue always and ask him genuinely if he is going through a tough time or he just argues without any reason.
That’s the thing. He doesn’t wanna talk about why he feels low or depressed. Doesn’t want to be helped nor wants to improve and that makes me feel restless and helpless. It’s like he wants to complain about things which are really messed up in his life and how he is messed up because of that, but doesn’t wanna heal or do anything productive or healthy to be better or feel better. I get it complaining helps you get things off your chest but you have to try to let yourself heal he doesn’t wanna do that nor communicate
Ricky @ricky_
Hmm right, he has to open up and also try to change himself. Anyways, if the relationship is affecting you in a negative manner…then you should slowly drift apart like I did. We can only try our best. Take care 🧡
Thanks, u too
Why you want him to respond…block him move on…this relationship is toxic and you both know it
Because as it’s just about taking some space and not break up completely it would’ve been helpful if he responded to it, I would’ve felt he wants to make this work and try to be better. But there is no acknowledgement
Yeah…move on…block him
