My parents and I got into an ugly fight all because they told me they’ll be bringing proposals for marriage and I said NO as I love someone and am in a relationship. I told them about it straightforwardly with a hope in my heart that they’ll understand. But everything backfired on me and instead of understanding they started saying things to me which really shattered me. They told me not to ever talk to the guy, if I did I’ll be breaking their trust. I have always been so close to my parents. The way they behaved was heartbreaking. I had my worst breakdown that night. Since then things are better as I told them to let me focus on my career for a time being and not on marriage but on the inside I feel lonely, I don’t feel connected to anyone, not my parents, not my friends, not even my boyfriend ( even if it has nothing to do with him) I don’t feel like I’m anywhere present, I don’t feel anything except for sadness even if things around me are good. I was never like this. I don’t understand what’s happening to me?
It’s so related I can understand your pain buddy 😭
Are you clumsy? 🤔
I hope it didn’t happen yesterday?
No, a few days back
It’s so relatable tbh exact same thing happened to my gf that’s why I downloaded this app because they took her phone when I see your app I was it’s you 🥲
I feel terrible for her.
Yes I’m feeling helpless last she was crying and asked me to not go against her parents
This is so frustrating
And for your that emptyness part i think you should take some time off from everyone just work and collect your thoughts explore things talk to more people figure out what is it that you are missing in life 🤷
I can understand that pain. Even I don’t know how I’m going to pass through that phase.
Why do parents act like this I don’t understand, even after having so much experience in life how can they be so childish?
I’m not sure sometimes I feel like it’s their ego or generation gap and one more thing mostly female have to suffer because they are not rebellions like male
I agree, this is happening to me all because I’ve already been a girl who obeys you know. And now they feel like anything they impose on me I’ll accept. I know they’re my parents and they don’t want my bad but at least let me live, let me make my decisions.
It is important to be a rebel. I am going to be one for sure. Even if it breaks my heart. I can’t submit to everything in my life.
It’s ok to be rebel for those people who are career oriented and with wisdom I’ll suggest you this don’t be blindly in love see efforts of your bf and if you both earning or not all these sorts of things are in your favour then you can go against your parents
Woman used to be in house always that’s why it’s difficult for them to adjust with male dominating society
No no, From rebel all I mean is I’m not going to allow my parents to make a decision and force me into that, for example marriage. At least I should be able to put my choice first.
Although my boyfriend and I are very clear about the fact that we’re never going to go against our parents will, even if we’re blinded by love. This is something we’re clear since the beginning.
I have to have my voice, to put my points and they should listen to them other then just denying and forcing me to not talk to the guy.
He earns well, he is well settled. I’m the one working on my career.
There is another evil way if you believe that you both are perfect for eachother then you can try emotional blackmail 🤣
Because as a guy I’m against arrange marriage I’ll never marry anyone stranger
And I don’t want to…
I want to cry I’m missing her 😭
Good luck buddy