now i don’t really know, what she meant by it because indian moms talk like that a lot, so my advice would be to not take it to heart even though i understand it is not right and it hurts too much :/
Simran @st1199
Hello!
There is nothing you can do than ignore it. When they are angry or disappointed in us they just say it for the sake of it but do not actually mean from their heart.
So, let it go. It’s the same as when we fight with our known ones and say something we shouldn’t.
I will say don’t take it personally, Indian mothers usually say these things without meaning them.
Avtar @avtar
Give her reasons through your actions to say whatever you are expecting from her.
Ana Banach @johnthejohn
Respond, “Guess I don’t have to do anything then!” (I mean that as in chores). I’m terrible, but please do that.
Idk if im the only kid that goes thru this but my mom she just mentally break me down she would threated to send me back to foster care she would say im nothing and she would kick me out 😔