My husband took a loa.n of around 1 cr for construction of house in bangalore before our marriage. He earned 1 lac per month and spend almost 80% of his sala.ry on exp.enses and the instal.lment of the loan. He never buy anything for himself even on his bday but every weekend took me to the hotel. I also earn 60k per month but he never allowed me to spend my mo.ney in expenses and when i tried to do so he got angry with me. He thinks like “biwi ke paise nahi khrch krna chiye”. How to make him understood so he allowed me to contribute any suggestions?
Make him understand that just the way he is building the house for BOTH of you similarly BOTH of you should pitch in equally for the house. It’s not just his responsibility to take care of everything and that you want to help him as well. Tell him how happy you will be to contribute and help with some things.
I tried but he is not ready to understand. I am saving 90% of my salary.
Then I guess I for good as well, Sav as much as you can an use them when it’s really needed. In the mean time why don’t you pamper your husband a little bit, like a surprise, a date, a movie night, or anything to spoil him as well
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Biwi k paise kharch karne nhi chahiye… It’s fine but biwi toh karsakti h na… Na kare toh paise pade reh kr honge Ky… And whenever u want to do something for him you are spending your money so baat hi nhi uthi ki wo kharch kar rha hai…this is a sweet approach but tbh u can it’s okay to accept this fact it’s 2022 he can use wife’s money in need if it’s worth the spending