My husband of 4 years started chatting with a new colleague a girl from his office. She is my age. My husband is a shy person so he told me he gets very lonely in the office. Most people in his group are extroverts. He has trouble communicating as well sometimes. But recently only i found out he started chatting with this girl it’s been over a month they started chatting for hours. The thing is I never felt he didn’t give me time or anything in the meantime. I am a little possessive of him too so i don’t know if that is the reason he didn’t tell me about her. From what I understood she is very much liked by everyone in the office. She has a boyfriend as well whom her family doesn’t approve of. Initially they were talking a lot. And sometimes there are rumors in their office if people starts talking to each other so they don’t talk in the office but chat. He gives her Lift too sometimes. He also went outside her pg to wish her happy birthday. Recently this girl is telling him she wants to keep a distance and is asking is he okay with this and he is saying he is not. Chat also she is very rude to him sometimes. I told him to keep a distance as he is her superior. Be civil. So he did what I said she is suddenly blowing up why are you so formal and all. And he said because you told and my wife asked me to. So she is like even though I told I didnt stop texting n all. And she is asking did she come between me n him. I honestly don’t understand their chemistry right now. I don’t know why I am a little hurt.
Yes it’s tricky. Maintain a distance is good with decent communication. Tell your husband to do that. Don’t over communicate.
Yes. You are right. I feel bad for him too actually I m assuming he did what he did out of desperation. I don’t why I feel so hurt.
It’s okay to feel hurt. That’s a natural reaction. Just be with your husband and leave the rest.
Thank you. That helps❤️