My husband is meeting his ex who is in town.
He did ask me if i wana join them, but i said no.
Not sure he asked me to join them coz I shuld not feel bad or he genuinely asked me.
I am all ok, he is meeting anybody( be it any girl or boy) but the fact he is meeting somebody who he had a relationship is making me soo uncomfortable, anxious.
All my emotions are triggered and its affecting me mentally and my work.
I love my partner alot and he always been honest and truthful in our relationship.
Is my feeling justified???
He is still in touch with his ex? Thats just wrong…and if you feel uncomfortable about it tell him so…it is not at all good to remain in contact with an ex…iam sure he will not like it if you are in touch witj your ex right…same goes for him too…tell him to stop it…
Feels like he is manipulating you, if he really loves you he should not be doung something which make you so uncomfortable, talk to him about it, see that things like this dont happen again…
It is definitely wrong if it is making your spouse uncomfortable, your spouses feeling should be your priority rather then spending time with your ex…
You dont have a clear and committed relationship then, iam in my 40s have been in many relationships and happily married now, let me tell you from experience keeping an ex in your life after ending the relationship will always lead to complications in your current relationships, better to keep things simple and clear…
He never manipulates me, he is a good partner…
I feel i m insecure about him, that he is meeting his ex.
Coz he is ok if I talk to my ex.
Himanshu @jaggajasoos
Truly justified ye jo aapke saamne aapka pati mil raha hai apni ex se maybe in the name of friendship, ye kabhi hota nahin hai reality, feelings ni jati unko trigger chahiye bass. Babu bhaiya so bas koi incident koi event aapke kuch galat karne ki deri aur pep talk will turn into emotional support session and and that can turn into a kiss for sure kyuki ye badi normal si cheez hai aajkal. Fir wo ladki jahan tok de bande ko. Ladko ke andar ye cheez achchi hai ke wo har bandi ke paas ni jaate jo genuine hain unki baat kar raha hu but jiske saath ek emotional bonding hai wahan ruk bhi ni paate. So yess your gut feeling ya jo bhi hai it’s somehow genuine.
Ananya Yashraj @ananyay
I guess she was looking for some relief but all the comments here would have made her go mad even more !
Ur right, i just wanted little support about my feeling.
But infact all the comments were that my partner is wrong and manipulative.
Joy @joyforlife
It’s really disheartening that here people start judging instead of helping. Well if you talk in public I think better you assume there will be some fools too.
But as per my suggestion, you don’t need to think about it much if you say your husband is loyal too. Coz sometimes it happens like when we had relationship with someone and when it is broken, we see it as a friendship. So you shouldn’t worry about it until you get to know that they are meeting frequently. I mean more then 2 or 3 times.
Joy @joyforlife
And for the offering part to join them. As per my opinion it’s okay if you didn’t go with him. It shows that you still trust him and it will stop him to do anything wrong with you if he supposed to do that.
But until you don’t come to know that exactly, i think you don’t need to worry about. Stay positive ✌🏻 stay strong 💪
Thnk u joy, ✌️
Stop simping bro ise psychology ki language me confirmation bias kehte hain apne thoughts ko reaffirm kar ke achcha feel karna in layman’s language. agar ye miss yahi karne aayi hain to ye jhooth ka attention seek kar rahi hain warna probability dono ki hai inka pati cheater bhi ho sakta hai aur sahi bhi. Stop calling others fool when you yourself are a simp.
Omg 😳 this is totally wrong, meeting ex there’s chances that you get cheated on and their meetings won’t end but will increase. It won’t happen all of a sudden but slowly when you argue with him she will be the first person to whom he will go to comfort him. Please talk to your husband and tell him that you don’t like him meeting his ex and tell him to cut off any kind of relationship in ạ respected manner. And don’t worry about what will happen but make sure be respectful and sometimes it’s us who made everything messed up
Joy @joyforlife
I would suggest you to make few good friends here and try to ask such things in personal. You can find good girls here as well who will understand you, not demotivate you. Sometimes we want to be heard but nobody wants to understand that. Kuch logo ko darane me zyada maza aata hai or kuch logo ko chidhane me. Yaha har tarah ke log milenge.
Thank u joy, you are rights.
People are judging my relationship and my partner.
Also when it comes to having female friends, i dnt feel comfortable as they are going through a bad relationship and they will only give me negative opinion.
And my husband is my close friend, n i was not comfortable to discuss this feeling with him.
Joy @joyforlife
Please don’t get me wrong but not all girls will give you negative openion. There are all kind of peoples in al genders, you just need to explore. I will share a conversation yesterday I sad here, I really felt good to see all girls there were talking very positively.
You can connect to them if you want. You can connect to me if you feel comfortable.
And you know, the best part is that your husband is your close friend and if it is, try to trust him as well. Leave your insecurities. I am not saying it never happens, but you know when a guy wants an extra marrital affair, the only reason is his wife but he can never say that. So if he also thinks the way you do, you don’t need to worry.
Atleast until you see it by your eyes. Just stay positive for that ✌🏻
Ugly @amarkaur
talk about what you are feeling and that you can’t help it. so ask him to help you deal with these things you can feel
