My grandparents live with me and they’re super religious. My periods are going on and my grandmother and I were fighting because I touched the table the food was kept on. THE TABLE. NOT EVEN THE FOOD. I was like, “I don’t believe in your religious bs and I am free to touch what I want” and to spite her I touched the food lol. Then she says how in her house we need to follow her rules and I said, " technically this isn’t your house, it’s my father’s and I can do what I want" now no one is talking to me. I think it’s pretty funny 😭😂
I know it’s hard for her to understand, and sometimes we get angry about it, but tbh, anger is never a solution to anything, also when it comes to our own loved ones. Keep doing what you want during your period so that it becomes normal, without saying much. :)
Yes I agree
It must be really hectic for you
Do what you like to do but don’t say anything to them they are in their old age and it’s difficult to teach them now that these type of things doesn’t matter
Hope to see you smiling and enjoying with your family ❤️
That’s so sweet. Thank u💕🥺
Welcome 😇
Did you talk to your mom in private about all this
Well she’s not exactly in my side. She isn’t as rigid as my grandmother but according to her I should just abide by what my grandmother says for now instead of creating a scene
It means she’s stuck in between you and your grandmother but she doesn’t want you to quarrel with elders in the family
Period’s are a natural thing
But if you quarrel with your grandmother na it would have negative impact on your mom too because your grandmother won’t say you much but she definitely quarrel with your mother and will upset the whole family due to such a small thing
It’s not a small thing though. I mean I’m gonna have periods every month. I cannot listen to the lecture about what i shouldn’t touch and why not every month. Mood swings and cramps aren’t enough that I need to go through that as well😂
Aree sorry I meant small thing other way like it’s a normal thing they shouldn’t make an issue with such a thing
Ohh ok sorry for going off on you then
No need for sorry just take care and be happy❤️
