My grandparents live with me and they are toxic af. Any interaction with either of them always turns into a fight. They’re always fighting, with each other, with my parents, with the help, with me, even with delivery people and salespeople. I get that they’re old but there’s a limit. The way they talk about and to my mother is just so upsetting 😭. I can’t take this anymore and I’m thinking of moving away. Im going to pursue a degree and I’ve found colleges away from home. But in all this, I’d have to leave my parents, brother, friends and everything I’ve even known too. And it might seem like a huge decision but it’s not great for my mental health. I feel like I’m the toxic one and maybe i am, but i feel like moving away will help me realise if i am actually the issue. Idk what to do
You know if they give shit to your loved ones, maybe you should too by showing a bit of passive aggressive behaviour
Oh i do, both of them are giving me the silent treatment right now so that’s just great🙃. I’m honestly not the most respectful grandkid so cant say it’s entirety their fault 😂
Dude, you know my grandma wasn’t the kindest lady to my mum and my dad and my dad is the most selfless man
So I yelled at her for not being a nice guardian and she spread a bad word about me to the entire fcking family tree
Now that she is gone, I still am not able to forgive her for doing this to me and I still hate her
You stood up for yourself, so it’s cool
It’s better than shutting all things and feelings out
Firstly know that your peace is above everything but find out will you find peace by running of from family chaos by leaving your loved ones in that chaos or even there somewhere far away you will feel anxious but if you really need to find that peace that way then you go for it but think about everything before taking any decision.
I really don’t get what you want me to do 😭
I am just trying to say that if you can find a way to have peace in that chaos too which may be really difficult but still if you can find a way then stay bcuz people need their loved ones in their hard times and your mom and family may need you to stay too but if there’s no way then only go for moving out decision
Vipul Tripathi @24vipul
My grandmother is doing the same exact same stuff to my mother and then showing that I’m
Not doing and she start to sell her own stories to the relatives and whenever I see that happening I don’t care weather the person is a member of my own family I simply start spiting out the real facts tell them how much bitch she is my mother has taken so much care of her But still she has the guts to say bad things about her my father wants me to behave but I’m very sure the day where will cross the very line I’ll drag her out of the house and I’ll take my mother with me and drop my family surname
Fr fr fr sameeee. My grandmother does this thing where she creates the problem and then when it becomes too big she passes on the blame. And if someone dares to tell the facts, it suddenly becomes this whole thing about how they’re trying to disrespect her. Lmao and my grandparents are on their best behaviour withy father, the only person who can actually have them leave, so i don’t think they’re going away anytime soon
Vipul Tripathi @24vipul
Actually my grandfather was great man he passed away last year and also in front she would never dare to this thing but now she’ll behave like everyone should ask her before doing anything I’m like look fuck your shit 😂🤢
