My girlfriend thinks I’m not paying her enough attention, don’t speak properly, and I’m always sad, but she never try to understand that it’s a very critical time for me, since I am looking for a job, and there are a lot going in my life right now, I just want her to understand me but she never and I don’t want to tell her all this. Now she doesn’t want to talk to me, she thinks I am very boring.
Time to find a new girlfriend:)
She already knows everything, and I don’t want to repeat myself over and over
She wants at least 3-4 hours of talking a day, and I try my best to make that happen but the thing is right now I’m not in that state, i have to focus on my carrier, I just want to understand me and support me…
Communication is the key. If she knows that you are struggling at this moment of your life maybe she will find a way to understand your point of view a little bit more, give you time and support you. Being vulnerable is part of any relationship and if you think that she cannot understand you because you did not give her a chance to know your current situation, I think that is not fair. I hope you two work it out and stay safe