My girlfriend recently cheated on me and I thought that that was something that could never happen to me until it did. Having invested the amount of time and effort and sacrifice into this relationship as I had, this news came as a shocker. Everything just feels like a big lie, like some conspiracy. I think I’ve still not come to terms with it and I don’t exactly know how to feel. A part of me is very sad and some part of me is extremely angry at her for being so selfish and insensitive.
All your feelings, ranging from sadness to anger are valid. Emotions work on a spectrum, and of course you will feel them all. But I think you should just put her behind you and try to move on. Your time and energy is too precious to waste on people who don’t respect you