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My girlfriend and i were on a date, and i left to pay the bill when i was coming back i saw a guy was talking to her and before leaving he shook her hand and did half a hug, when i came back i was furious i am very possessive when it comes to my girlfriend i did not say a word after that she kept asking whats wrong when we reached back to our place i asked her who it was she said a senior from her school she used to go to. I tried to keep my cool but she got on my nerve when she said โ€œdont over react its fine babyโ€ tab maine hath utha diya and i talked in foul language, i started swearing on her she cried for me to stop but i did not i was so mad, i cant remember but around 4-6 slaps and i twisted her wrist. Were my actions justified? I feel so guilty

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No your actions werenโ€™t justified

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Anonymous
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Absolutely not.

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Anonymous
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Only if your roles could be reversed. Then i would answer your question

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Anonymous
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Letโ€™s for instance say the roles are reversed, whatโ€™s your opinion now?

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Anonymous
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So absolutely not justified. Does not matter if it was other way around. You donโ€™t own someone. Even I wouldnโ€™t want a guy to touch my girl, but I wouldnโ€™t hurt her. Never

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Anonymous
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You are very insecure ans she is going to leave you soonโ€ฆ she should have left you already

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Anonymous
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No. Not at all.

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Anonymous
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Justified Iโ€™d say. idk y people r saying not justified

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Joy @joyforlife

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One word answer is NO.
Whatever youโ€™ve said was okay, but whatever you did was not. I can understand how you felt, but the way you reacted is not justified at all. I think we guys sometimes forget we are dealing with another human, not a thing. She also has rights, emotions, and thoughts. Better you have talked with her regarding this later.
Be gentle with her bro, she deserves better than this. Now go and ask sorry to her. Maybe she can forgive you and start looking at you the way she was looking before. But again be gentle with her, and respect her decisions as well. All the best ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

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Raza Khan @thegentleguide

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As a man, never hurt any girl, let alone your own.
A real man never raises his hand on a woman. You are supposed to be a safe haven for your woman. This isnโ€™t a gentlemanโ€™s values.
First thing, go to her, apologize. Gift her flowers or cook for her. Write a letter and read out to her and tell her that was the biggest mistake of your life. Be accountable and never ever repeat it. Tell her you were possessive because naturally all men areโ€ฆbut went too far.
Let me know how it went, take care and love all women in your life.

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