My gf is scared that i dont have any emotional quotient left for her . I hurt her unknowingly and not consoling enough. 

Please suggest how can i be consoling enough when the only means of communication is texts , calls and the situation is already tense since i have caused her pain. 

Hey mate,
I got you. First of all, we don't console anyone in a relationship. We always empathise and understand that person(which comes naturally). Secondly, before everything, should apologise for everything that happened in the past, and try to be soft with her. Because as humans we do not respect that person who is always available for us. 
I hope this brings some clarity. For further guidance. you can always book a session.
Regards,
Harmanpreet K

Love

heyyy hloo hiii i was in relationship with a girl for last 3 year and i love her so much but  last 5 month before she told me i don't want to talk you or she didn't talk me  and i was in so much depression and pain i am student and i was not able to read but last few days i was recovering little bits from this but again she came in my life and she is telling i love you so much but when i talk her i fell so much tension so much anger so much pain and  i am feeling i should not talk to her but if i am not talking i am flail for her but i am sure i will not talk her at any cost.then what should i do?plzzz if any body can help me? 

Relationships

I'm done with the games.... Some say she's not interested n some say even though she says things like this was the final breakup she still wants to be with you.... So some say spend time and some say do no contacttt to get her back...... God what should I Doo?  I just want her back 😭😭😭😭😭

3am Thoughts

This valantine I want a GF but I don't have anyone I liked😕

Really frustrated 

Anger Issues

Guys, I need your opinion.
So there is this cool, cute girl. We were good friends. But one day i got into a fight with her.
Then she said "OK YOU DON'T WANT TO TALK ITS OKAY DON'T". And next day i reply "OK". Then she blocked me. And after a week or somedays later i text and said "I'M SORRY".
But then she said "I'M BUSY RIGHT NOW AND I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS THING I'LL TEXT YOU LATER". It's been nearly 4 months she hasn't replied yet. Few days ago it was her birthday i thought of wishing her but i didn't.
I asked my friends should i text her or not.
They said "DON'T. BECAUSE WHEN YOU WENT TO SAY SORRY SHE HAD NO TIME FOR THIS THING. NOW ITS ABOUT SELF RESPECT".
So what you guys think should i text her or not?


Confusion

Can we normalise of being ignored every single time even if someone's not stable due to her family issues n huge losses.!


Depression

I think I'm not deserved a girl in my life if I can't be a better person than who I am right now.

There's a fight happened between my girlfriend and me, well.. not really a fight. She's upset and sulking because I'm no longer can't spend much more time with her.
I've work to do, from 8am-8pm.. I'm so tired after that need a rest.. because of that I only can spend a lil time with her at night. Everytime I fell asleep while chat, she's so mad at me. I just want her to understand that I'm really tired and at the same time I feels like it's my fault because can't maintaining my own time. 

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Frustration

Why is it that you love someone who said she loves you too but still hurted you so so much and also claims to love you! I dated one girl twice like for 1st time she hurted me and was not in love and left me. Second time after years i thought now she loves me but after sometime again the same things leaving me for other friends and everyone. And still claimed that she loves me. Why?
After sometime it seemed like she enjoying and intentionally doing things to hurt me. The thing that kept me was that she too cried on call that made me feel as if she loves me. But still. 
One day after fight it seemed she's just fine. Not by seeing. But because i saw her laughing with friends so loud and that too everyday after every fight. It was so genuine laugh as if i didn't matter. And after confronting i only got the answer that i hide my emotions. 
I just wanna know why people who hurt you are soooo fuckin happy than youu who deserves better than them. You know you deserve better but still you're not hapoy or anything but to see the one who claimed to love you for like 2 years but still acts and do things that quite obvious says that she never cared although you know she never did. But still you're fucked up. Nobody after hours or one day go with friends and laugh so hard even if the person that is me in this situation is in front of her. How can someone be like this bullshit. Please give me some things i want to know why she's so happy as if nothing happened and i am numb. Just don't say try ti do things to make you happy and other obvious things plzzzz.

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