my friend used to touch me and stuff… like he would hit my but with his keys or say weird stuff… one time i got done hanging out with my bf and he was like “what happened” and i said “nothing” and he said “popi… its you. i know ‘nothing’ didnt happen.” he stuck his fingers in my mouth and said it was his dick… it was weird. he used to harass me and stuff. he did it to other girls and we finally reported him. its been happening to me since 5th grade and idk… he got in trouble but now hes mad at me. i wanna know what hes thinking and whats wrong with him. after he found out i told he said “it wasnt even me, it was my keys” and i feel so… idk. it made me so sad but i screamed at him. im confused about the situation because when he wasnt making me feel bad he was a great friend i feel like im being dramatic but i want to say sorry… idk. this whole thing is making me so sad and i really liked to have him as a friend… im stressing sm over this pls help
also im 12 and in 6th grade
Listen. You have to report this to your parents or someone elder who you trust.
Your school counsellor might not be too effective but you need to report this to anyone. You said that he’s done this to other girls right? Why don’t all of you approach some higher authority and report this? They can’t deny if it’s a group of girls reporting.
It doesn’t matter if he was a “great friend”. Any friend who makes you feel uncomfortable and makes you feel like they “harassed you” is NOT a great friend.
Girl, cut him out of your life. You’ll find better guys, with better hearts to be your bestfriends.
Please do NOT say sorry to him. I’m 6 years elder to you and I’m telling you, he’s not worth it. Do not even speak to him. And if he tries to be weird with your again- REPORT. You’ll find enough friends as you grow older trust me.
How can you like someone as friend when they do this to you?
Do not stress over this.
Forget the guy!
Puh.tato @kumkum
Please tell this to your parents or any adult you feel comfortable talking to. He may feel like a great friend but he is NOT. He has touched you without your consent which is absolutely wrong okay? You’ll have really great friends in your life, just not this one. Just tell someone ASAP.
Bees_knees @nichol
Jeez, what a horrible little man.
Please stay away and stay safe… you don’t have to put up with this bullshit at all…
He is not a friend to you… if this behaviour of his is making so many people uncomfortable, its better to report it…
These horrible incidences may escalate very quickly and put someone in real danger… it will haunt you for life if you do not take action against him…
