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My friend is getting attached and I’m invited and I’m so happy for her.

I always always dress nicely. She keeps asking where I bring my clothes from etc. Yet she kept saying, dress nicely and come. She also said, β€œMeharbani karke ache se ready hoke aana”. This stuck in my head. What did she mean?

Am I stupid and overthinking? Did she say it normally or jokingly or was pointing at something? Should I discuss this with her or am I crazy?

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It all depends on tone she said it in

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Anonymous
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I don’t know about that

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Anonymous
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I’ll try. Thank you

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Abhijeet A.K @akabhi

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Don’t ask her bro just dress well and go with her if any surprise is there then be happy and wait till the end and see ur moves and if u like her then tell in the evening I guess

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Anonymous
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I always dress properly. Her engagement is still a week away

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And I say this so confidently because all my dresses are above 5000 and near to 10,000. I get ready nicely too. That’s why it nithers me so much

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Anonymous
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If the sentence is bugging you then you should ask her because even if you say to yourself you don’t think about that but real thing isyou are thinking and having doubt. So just ask her

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Anonymous
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But wouldn’t I come off as stipid and way too sensitive?

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Anonymous
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No i don’t think so because if you both call yourself a friend then u should have the right to question her or ask her…see you are hurt so u have to clear that in which way she was saying that sentence

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Might be she is jealous of you…you have to observe her face feeling when she said that… Take it in liter note… Enjoy your day… Don’t think much

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I think she meant that it’s her special day and her best friend should also look awesome just like her. Obviously you dress up well everytime but it’s her duty to tell you. Everyone wants their best friend to look better than others and specially when it’s her engagement. Don’t overthink, friends do these types of things. Just chill and make arrangements 😊. Enjoy!!

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