My friend has a girlfriend and they wanna get married, the issue is girl doesn’t want to live with boy’s family or even in the city.
And the boy wants to live with family, that’s where he finds his comfort.
What do you should be done now.

They can live with girls parents for a month , guys parents for next month and exchange accordingly 

Confusion

Hey I need major help. I love my bf, we've been together for months. And he's helped me through really rough times. But idk there's just something really bugging me. I used to feel like he was the one for me, like there was nobody else in the world. But lately I've been having mixed feelings about it. He's really sweet, and nice. But sometimes he'll just leave without warning. He gets way too jealous when I hang out with my BFF and even talks bad about her. He doesn't like me hanging with anyone when he's not there. Idk what to do. I love him, I truly do. But there's something inside of me now that just really makes me want to take a break but I don't want to hurt him at all. I haven't been myself since we met, and I've become too dependent on him. I just need some time to be me again, but I really don't want to hurt him cuz I'm scared he'll hurt himself. And he means a lot to me. Help?

Stress

I was in one sided love with a guy who didn't give a shit about me back then. It took me 1 year to move on from him cause my feelings were strong. And when I was stable I would barely made any effort to talk with him but he started to give effort and showed interest but I wasn't interested much. It went like this for about 4 months and he proposed me that he loves me genuinely. I rejected him. But he still clinges on me with his feelings and all. I rejected him harshly yesterday. Now we are not talking. I did the right thing, right?

One Sided Love

Hii beautiful people..you know me and my ex not contact each other for a very long time. We've been together for four years and we broke up cause we kept fighting and misunderstood some stupid things and he never understand and i hate it so much. But a few months ago, he suddenly asked me to marry him but i said i can't!i have a lot of commitments to my family and he said that he will accept all my decision. At last he mad at me cause i refused him. I really don't understand why is he acting like tht. And he blamed me everything. He said tht i wish i will be marry with a guy tht can cook so he decided to became a chef.and he blamed me cause he supposed to be a motivater but at the end because of me.he said tht i didn't keep the promise.in addition i fall in love with someone else.. Hurmmm sometimes i scared if he's gonna be my future husb. But i don't want tht to happen

Relationships

Hi, I'm in love with my best friend but my best friend is already in a relationship for 2 years. My relationship with him is weird, its what i would usually do with people that I am in a romantic relationship with such as calling first thing in the morning, gaming all day and calling at night. I asked his why we call after a gaming session and its was because he likes it. (At this point i dont know what to think or do). We would literally spend every hour if we can on call (sometimes not even talking) or gaming. Sometimes when we game and I make him laugh, its like i fell for him over and over again. He is everything I have ever looked for in a guy :(. 

I respect his relationship with his gf and I would try and move on, believe me I TRIED. Part of me wants to tell him how i really feel but im afraid of losing him because no one else. The other part just wants to shove all my feelings in a box and continue to be his forever 'friend'. But his always asking me if im okay, im afraid that one day im going to snap and confess to him and just lose everything. I didn't know who I would turn and talk about him. He is my best friend. I tell him **almost everything**.

My ex and I broke up last November then saw each other for the first time since then last Sunday. It brought me back to all of my love for him. My love had never gone anywhere, it was as if it was yesterday. I was so unsure about getting back together because we had been through so much and it feels like he loves and hates me at the same time and don’t have it in me to fight for anything where I am loved and hated because I’m going through so much in life. I wish we could let go of all the bad things and go back to how we were in love. But we can’t. We decided not to continue talking, neither of us was ready and maybe there isn’t a future for us. I accept what is meant to happen. I know I should be patient. Love is so important to me and I think life is so much more beautiful when you love someone and when someone loves you. 

Breakup

We broke up. He was my 1st true love. He was my 1st kiss and my 1st makeout partner. He has seen me in a way no one has seen before. He had made me feel special and loved just the way I was. Then things changed and we broke up. Now I don't know how to not feel sad about the physical part I had with him. I just feel that I want to do it again and feel loved again like he did to me. I don't know how to overcome it and I think I'm broke inside because I don't even want to do it with anyone else who doesn't love me or with anyone who can left me at any point. I don't know how to move on from it.

I'm feeling incredibly sad most of the time these days. I'll explain why and I'll start at the very beginning. I went on an exchange for 6 months from August until February and met the most amazing people. I've bonded with most of them and they feel as close as family. I've been back quite a while and I was doing fine with not being with them. Now we went on a 16 day vacation with a few people, one of them being the crush I had. I lost most of my feelings in the time of not seeing this person. When I saw him on the vacation, my feelings were all back immediately. I decided it would be best not to say anything, not to ruin our friendship, just like I had done before. After a few days I felt like he returned the same feelings, so I told him about mine. He told me he reciprocated these feelings. He was very specific about not wanting a relationship though. He still has to process some stuff that has happened in the past and doesn't want to build a relationship on him not feeling up to that. I understood. We still cuddled every day for 7 days straight. One day we even kissed very passionately and he had to stop, because he was getting a little bit too excited and he didn't want to take it further to lead me on. Even though he was very clear telling me he didn't want a relationship, I'm stilling having problems now with accepting that. He has multiple times talked about how he sees out future and that when we do get together eventually what he would do and how that would work with us living in different countries, etc. It makes me so confused about what he wants from me. He tells me he wants me to move on and not think about him like that and that I should have someone else if I would want to, but on the other hand I feel like there is this expectation he has where whenever he figures out his life and the trouble in his past I will be there waiting for him. And if that is what he wants, me waiting for him, I'm fine with that. But now I don't know and that makes me more confused and more sad. But I feel like I should know, because he has said multiple times he wants me to move on and that there is not really space in his life for me now. 

Things that also confuse me is while we were cuddling, him saying things like: "for now, you are mine and only mine." And I know he meant I was his for only that week, but that fucks with my mind. I'm not sure whether I should talk about it with him and explain that even though he told me he doesn't want a relationship I still have expectations, because of things like this that he said. 

My bf never prioritize me.he talk to me when he feels lonely.when he have nobdoy to listen to his problems. but when in his happy days he forgets about me.we are in a long distance relationship.we studied in same college and are in relationship from 6 years.so all in these years when we were in college also he acted like this that always forget me in happy or celebration time.in college functions also he always was busy with dancing partying with others and left me alone and blamed me for this that you are antisocial.yes I'm a bit introvert but that doesn't mean that I'm completely antisocial.so overall he always shared his problems with me but never shared his happiness.thats why now I'm like this that whenever i want to calm my mind or find any happy memory I dont want to think about him.I also have many problems in my life but he always blame my family and me.and never listen to didn't give satisfactory comments about my problems.try to dominate me when I discuss any problem. I feel lonely sometime.now we both want to marry but I have fears that his attitude will not change and i will feel lonely even after marriage.

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