my friend asked her boy best friend to use me in a party as i was drunk.. 
if i forgive her am i a stupid person 

i am too confused to react in any way.. 
just holding out 

she doesn't know yet that I got to know the whole thing from someone else 

Yes
I'm sorry but its opinion but I think you should not forgive her or give her a second chance 

Firstly, using you?? Uh huh!! That's a big noo, whoever it might be, throw that person under the bus and secondly, they def ain't ur frdns. And lastly, don't take it hard on yourself, we deserve better love,people and things in life. Much love to you!

3am Thoughts

Im a man in my twenties - I masturbate a lot frequently like 3/4 times in a week when I get aroused, it could be just by watching a s3x scene in a movie or a TV series, I easily get aroused and masturbate. And this happens often because I get stressed with my work.

 It kinda makes my body weak....is there anything I can do to stop or decrease this activity?

Sexual Health

hello Hi

Abortion

Why people here are for dating. This aint a dating app. We re here to listen and support each other right or to find people for relationships 😂

Growing Up

Hie, do you ever feel guilty of being yourself. 
I was so dumb. In the school age. I said to everyone that i loved someone. In my inter i loved someone because I felt bad when someone said no to me in school . Just because he doesn't feel bad , I said yes. Turned out he  was a bullshit who didt cared about me but sex . I don't know what love is  . All i am left with is pain. I lost a lot of people because they think I am characterless. My love for first one was friendship. And the second one was mercy. I know I lack boundaries. I don't have limits sometimes. It's all because I have a father wound. I am not able to forgive myself. Please help what should I tell to myself. 

Exhausted

few days back, My classes' teacher saw me using the phone on the last bench during the lecture, he came over and threw it real hard, And he still behaves in a very abusive way with me, , can't get this out of my head, 

Not much of a thought, just a question. There is this guy who got more beautiful/handsome over the lockdown, and Sometimes he is being nice to me by askin for things, and sometimes just ignore me. I am cute but a lil chubby (Bigger bod person as compared to petite girls) how can I ask him out?

Also, he's always been this conservative shy guy, who just stays in his group and doesnt talk with much girls. 

Adulting

How does someone know if they are lying to themselves? Can I stop believing the lies I give myself if I don't even know what the lies are? I don't even mean to do it, but with the way I grew up, I lied to be loved by my family and it's hard to get out of the habits. It's so bad that people have called me a pathological liar and I don't want to be one, but I know the mind can do a lot of things, and that could include making yourself believe lies even if it takes hearing voices to lie to yourself more realistically. 

My parents recently adopted twin girls from South Korea.  We brought them back to America, and I hate them both.  They're 2, so I shouldn't, but they always cry when I'm around.  I may just be too noisy or scary (I usually have that affect on kids, if I don't charm them), but I honestly think they despise me.  

I told my parents, and they told me it was just jealousy.  It may just be, but I began to fear for my sanity yesterday.  I was looking at them as though they were part of an art show, and suddenly, I had an urge to pluck out all of their hair.  I had pulled out three strands from the older twin when my mom came in on the account of her crying.  

I don't know what to do with these kids and my feelings.  I'm 12, I love kids, and I graduated from a babysitting class recently.  I have no clue what to do.

HELP.

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